i have a nice personality adn alot of guys notice that so they try to talk to me and when i give in and start talking to them and date them later on i notice that they used me or trying to use me for certain things like money,sex,.....etc how can i stop them from doing this to me? this only happened to me twice and now i have a broken heart
2006-09-07 14:57:48 · 9 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop dating losers.
2006-09-07 14:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only hang out with guys that you know won't. Don't give them either money or sex period until you're married. That's a commitment that is at least supposed to be lifelong, so if you get into that commitment, you know that there's little to no chance that they will use you.
2006-09-07 15:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by nigh7d4g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop giving them money and sex.
Go out with them, sure, but don't give them anything until you are really sure they deserve to sleep with you. As for money, I would never give that up.
2006-09-07 15:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say this has happen twice so you should be aware of the characteristics of these type of men and when you talk to them they will be reveal so you know to keep moving.
2006-09-07 15:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by Rashad M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is set some ground rules. If they break the rules, dump them.
2006-09-07 15:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by thresher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right off the bat, no sex for 3 months. if he is still around then its all good.
2006-09-07 15:03:33 · answer #6 · answered by billytwoeagles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't act desperate. guys pick up on that and take advantage every-t-i-m-e.
2006-09-07 15:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ur fault.....take control.....don't go out with F***ed up people or losers...
2006-09-07 15:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by modiano18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit being such a sl.ut
2006-09-07 15:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋