she was molested when she was very young before she came to live with me , Now she suffers from border line persona;ity disorder. She really wanted to have me date her boss who is very nice , (My daughter is not close to her mom ) So we met and did in fact hit it off as the raltoinship wdent further myh daughter got really weird saaying all kinds of evil things about me anything from that i'm a cheater to a beater this cuased alot of strain on the relationship I had with this lady but the kicker is when she turned 18 she moves out and in with her boss . her boss and i stil see each other but have to be very secluded about the rlationship part if my daugher sees it she flips out in a rage, She started to remember everything and her boss is the person she told so she thinks I am going to take her away and leave her alone it's very bizaar , she is getting pro help but right now it is very hard on all of us do any of you have any ideas on how to deal with basically people who have dealt
2006-09-07 14:58:29 · 3 answers · asked by freeby1011 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your daughter needs effective counseling and she needs it NOW. A good counselor and maybe some meds until she can successfully come to grips with her past and learn how to deal with life. I note that you say she is in counseling, but is her current counselor doing her any good?
Maybe you should see if some group/family counseling would help and then GO. Do whatever it takes to help her learn how to deal with life.
Until then, the best thing you can do is try to be supportive and non-judgemental and don't rock the boat. As she gets more well, then she will be able to accept more change.
2006-09-07 15:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'm sorry to hear that. But your best bet is probably to seek help with your daughter to let your daughter know that you are not those things. I mean its a sad thing. but all you can do is be by your daughters side. I hope your girlfriend understands the problem. and she won't leave. because of your daughter. And just understand your daughter might not be able to change. Do to the fact. Good luck..
2006-09-07 22:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by samantha_rose0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy her a stripper.
2006-09-07 22:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋