All the guys at my school all agree that I'm the hottest thing ever. And at the same time, all the girls get madly jealous; so due to that I have no friends. But, when I try to make friends with the guys, they act all nervous and weird (not themselves.). Why are they doing this? Is there anything I can do that they may feel more comfortable and talkative around me?
2006-09-07 14:56:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ummm im just wonderin but how old r u, and were do you live? and could you post a real pic? ok well first of all....your "the hottest thing ever" do you really think guys are going to act normal around you? man theres dumb as hell...if all the guys act the way dey do...id be that one that stood out...cuz i notice these things and id be that one person that treated you "normal" like you were a friend not the hottest girl in the skool. And if you want them to act differently...then dont try and look like "the hottest thing ever"(and dont say that you dont try) switch it up a little....Now i dont know why you wouldnt have any frends ...i think thats messed up. But if you seriously want to have guy frends, then treat them like frends...make them realize that there's no reason to be nervous. Because when they see you the first thing that there thinking is" o sh-it the hottest girl in the skool is talkin to me, i better try and play it cool" then they end up lookin stupid and making it obvious that they're nervous(do they not?) there thinkin"god, shes perfect, theres no way i can act like myself in front of her, or she might think im stupid or something" and thats why they act like that....so just play it cool and show dem theres no reason to act the way they do.... trust me, im a guy i know these thing. I gots a life time a knowledge!
But ya, i Hope this Helped!
if you want to hit me up yahoo: iminlove_withastripper77(i made this when that song was HOt!)
or hotmail: kon_artist77@hotmail.com
( i know you want hit me up but, its worth a try right?)
2006-09-07 15:10:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you had a better attitude and didn't think you were "all that" maybe the guys wouldn't be intimidated. Act yourself and just be nice and friendly. Try not to get caught up in the "popular" race, unless that is too crazy of an idea.
2006-09-07 22:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by jkcmr2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just accept that guys are going to be intimidated by you and the girls are going to be jealous of you. It'll get better in college, but be a "good girl" and don't get a rep as a slut.
2006-09-07 21:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by paul_p_25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that you should focus on making female friends. Girls are threatened by beautiful girls, but if you can open up to them and try to make friends you can keep the guys aside to admire you and not worry about it.
2006-09-07 21:58:58 · answer #4 · answered by angielynn219 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when i was in school the hottest girl had friends to me you must not be very hot cuz being hot isnt all on the outside
2006-09-07 22:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by LOLO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with one chick on here stop acting like your hot ****
thats y girls hate you
and your either a big flirt and you cant notice it
and guys act like totally asses bcuz they like you and guys arnt good with talking to girls to begain with so just be your self and stop being a stuck up ***** that saying OH IM SO HOT and
wella antother thing maybe if you fdont dress liek a slut guys would act ok around you
im not saying you do dress liek a slut i dont ******* care really im just saying if so thats y girls hate you and thats y guys are like 0_0 over you
2006-09-07 22:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by cold_hearted_bitch91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and don't act like you are (or think you are) the hottest thing ever.
2006-09-07 21:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by ~ â?¥ ~ Annette ~ â?¥ ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nadia H
The world doesn't revolve round you.
Stop trying to be the centre of attraction.
People don't like it.
2006-09-07 22:00:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bend over.
2006-09-07 21:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie its cuz ur intimidating them...try making some (girl) friends that are "normal" and theyll see ur not all superficial...guys are kind of stoopid...lol
2006-09-07 21:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by Woman. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋