broke up with her bf.. .. horrible relation ship with the rest of the family and no friends... what do i do??? she started crying when i told her i couldnt go for a walk w/ her cuz i was in the middle of a school assaignment..... said no one is there for her.... WHAT DO I DO??
2006-09-07 15:03:21 · 13 answers · asked by daisy_may_love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She is feeling helpless and alone right now suggest some things like women groups or find a volunteer group she will make friends I get depresed alot because I dont have friends that come by or call me I use to have my mom to talk to every day but she is gone now so its just me and my rescue animals I get very lonely for conversation beside dog talk lol but just tell her to focus on something she likes to do and she will fight this depression but she cant lean on you all the time either she has to find her own friends she can even email me I will be her friend on line:) tell her to be strong cuz depression will win if she lets it
2006-09-07 15:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is depressed and also grieving the loss of the bf even if he was bad.
Tell her you will walk with her...then set a time.
You might have to call your family doctor and see if you can get your mom in for a visit. Sounds like she has a lot to work on in her personal life.
As a young person a ask you to watch your mom's life and then you don't make the same mistakes she has. Each generation has the ability to make changes for the better.
2006-09-07 22:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were in the middle of a school assignment, you should of told your mom that you wanted to finish that assignment and then if there is enough time that you would go for a walk with here. If there was not enough time, make a walk date for tomorrow. She is your mother and you should be their for her and help her get through this depression that she is in. She does not realize that things will get better for her in time. Just give her the love that she is looking for. It will help her and in the long run bring you closer to your mother.
2006-09-07 23:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she very emotional hurted & unstable coz all these broken relationship, she need lots of TLC & patience from u. u are the only one she have left is what she is perceiving. tell her u love her very much & always will but she need to help herself which u can't do. people can only be help if they willing to make the 1st move.
also, what she needs firstly is to divert her attention from self pity. get a home hobby going if she rather stay home currently. a hobby gives her a goal to work towards & give a sense of achievement to boost her.
without better self esteem she will want to shun from public worrying people may reject her. build it up at home, hobbies, gardening, any interest, learning a new skill eg. the computer. to boost her self esteem up. once she bring her hobby out there, she able to find friend of similar interest. eg. cake making classes. there are lot of caring people out there, join salvation army run charities to help people worse than her.
hope this is of some help. peace, lady
2006-09-07 22:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could get her spirits up > let her help with home work even if you don't need it > looking up some of her good friends from her past >b careful and make sure they are still solid .> reassure her this will pass , > if this lasts for to long like 1 month get her to the Dr. > even mothers need help from there kids , but don't let her become dependent on you >just listen and be there > talk to her about your problems anything that works you know her the best
2006-09-07 22:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by yvette b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should get together with my mom. My mom calls me very down i do feel bad for her. She chose a crappy boyfriend and chooses to live a unfulfilled life. She constantly wants me to do things for her and SHE gets completely ANGE RY when i have other things going on. MY ADVICE what i do i tell i her i understand I try to do most of what she wants or at least tell her a good time i can do it 4 her. In the end i know I'm not responsible 4 her happiness or anyone Else's good counslor taught me you gain nothing by putting your own needs 2ed.
2006-09-07 22:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you CAN do. This is her problem not your's you stick with your schoolwork and try not to allow her to get you down. I know you want to help your mother but it really is not your place to do so, she needs to get through this on her own. Just try not to treat her too harshly for awhile and when you DO have a few minutes and she wants to talk be available but don't give up your schoolwork to do it. Your education is far more important and she should see that as well.
2006-09-07 22:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your dad if you think he will help. Plan a activity that you and your mom can do together. Don't talk about her bf and other people. Other than that you really can't do anything, let her deal with her problem on her own.
2006-09-07 22:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by rizwanholo1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her a yahoo log in account and put her on yahoo answers. That should keep her occupied as it does for us. The best medicine is the cheapest. So when you go out she can pour out her soul to others like her.
2006-09-07 22:10:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your mother is really broken-hearted about this. It also appears she may be wanting someone to lean on. She is the adult and, I take it, you are under 18. It isn't your job to help her get over it.
Your job is to love her.
If her behavior continues, please talk to your school counselor, your clergyperson, or your doctor. If her behavior continues she may benefit from medical or therapy assistance.
2006-09-07 22:07:51 · answer #10 · answered by booktender 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋