Family & Relationships - 6 September 2006

this is an addition to my previous question. some of the games women play when dating hurt worse than being beeten senceless!!!!!

2006-09-06 08:02:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been in a relationship with this guy for a little over two months now. I make more money than he does, and we've both come to terms with that. However, I still believe that he should foot the bill ONCE in a while. I mean, I do a LOT for him. I've never fallen through when I said I would do something for him. When I suggest we should go somewhere to eat (like even to frickin' McDonald's or Culver's), and he'll be like, "I don't have any money.." or "No, I don't really wanna go.." but the second I offer to pay, WHAM! We're there! It's getting old, and it's been going on for quite some time. He's always like, "I feel so bad that you're always paying for me and I never pay for you," blah blah blah. I'm always like, "It's understandable, pay me back when you can," or something. & When he DOES pay, 99% of the time he only covers his part (if not less) of the bill. What threw it all in my face was this morning, when I had court for a traffic violation, and... (cont'd).....

2006-09-06 08:01:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 08:01:41 · 19 answers · asked by Alex K. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

consider it financially stable+ mature and everything is good at What age is the best for a girl to get married ?
and when do u know that ur ready to commit?

2006-09-06 08:01:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he was alll bout lies, since the beginning of our relationship.... he told me a lie, in to tryin to have sex wit him, n i did it. he lied bout his brothers dying, and gettin shot. N i believed him.... He lied about so much stuff. Ikno wat u guys r thinkin, dump him u could do better. But I just love him with all my heart, i c him at skoo n i just want 3 cry n cry n cry. n run into his arms. But deep inside, i kno he dont care no more, cuz if he did, he would of said somethin wen i broke up wit him, but he didnt say nothing. N i dk i felt that he was avoiding me, n my gurls told me that he looked happy. N tried to fake it that i was happy, i did. in front of his friends, but i couldnt resist some tears.... this is just 2 much, in the letter i broke up wit him, i told him not to talk to me no more, 2 act like he never meet me. N i just kno that i wont b expectin no calls, today or ever... I feel like dying. I just aint strong. I try but its killing me. Dont B MEAN 2 ME PLZ.

2006-09-06 08:01:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have had them come and go. they usually do something behind my back to hurt my feelings...... boo hoo.. is there anyone who would like a new online friend? i could use some.....
tell me what kind of friend you have...

2006-09-06 08:01:21 · 37 answers · asked by phoenix 2 in Friends

Can a person be addicted to another person, what I mean is, can you totally not want nothing to do with this person, but when they come around you can't help yourself but give into them, even though you despise them? Or you seek them out yourself, like you just have to be around them. Does that make sense?

2006-09-06 08:01:16 · 13 answers · asked by Freckles 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend's son is 11 years old. When we get together in the evening she has to excuse herself around 9:30-10:00 as she needs to "tuck in" her son. Sometimes she even lies in bed with him till he falls asleep. ( Usually for 2-3 hours) He insists on having her with him before going to bed and refuses to even go to his bedroom till she's there. I know this annoys her sometimes as she tells him to go to bed himself but he flat out refuses and makes a fuss till she gives in and puts him to bed. When I asked her about this she says she doesn't mind and a night time routine is healthy for him. Do you think he's too old to have his mother continue with this routine and should maybe start learning to go to bed himself?

2006-09-06 08:00:52 · 4 answers · asked by Disney Dreamer 3 in Family

Help me out please? im lost...?
yea so heres how it is... every summer i go to visit my cousin. this year i hooked up with her best friend. sure the sexual part of it was awesome...
but i had a really awesome time with her.. we chilled, and went to the movies and i really enjoyed spending time with her. now the problem is that my cousin lives 12 hours away. i only go visit my cousin for two weeks out of the year. i know this sounds really lame or whatever, and ill prolly get called a p*ssy for sayin this, but im havin a really hard time not being with her. we talk all the time on the phone, but i had such an amzing time with her, i cant stand not being with her... WTF do i do?

2006-09-06 07:59:52 · 14 answers · asked by togaparty456 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i was driving back to our currents locations and he asked if i could see myself spending the rest of my life with him.. i asked him if he has something up his sleeve that i needed to know about but he smiles and says no.. could that question he asked me be a sign that he is about to pop the big question? i am nervous about it, should i be?

2006-09-06 07:59:50 · 6 answers · asked by funandfaithful 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This isn't about me because I am married and my wife and I are planning to have a baby. I am happy about it.

But, what about men or women who are given ultimatums about children?

If your spouse says this, do you divorce him or her:

If you do not give me a child now, then I will leave you.

What if you agreed before marriage to have 1 child and one spouse wants more?

What if you agreed to have no children and then later your spouse wants a baby?

What should a married couple do when they face something like this?

2006-09-06 07:59:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-06 07:59:25 · 9 answers · asked by adjustintime59 1 in Singles & Dating

WTF?? i care not. he says i have made a wreck of him. what's going on here? i told him i can't help him + he'll have to get on with it. what shall i do and what does this say about him? what does it say about me?

2006-09-06 07:59:00 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend who thinks that his penis is too small to be able to make any pleasure in a woman's body. He developed this huge obstacle in him and not wanting to put it in any more.
Any ideas how to convince him?
(He's doing stuff but not that one...)

2006-09-06 07:58:36 · 11 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Singles & Dating

so my friend has been trying to break up my current engagedment..he's pulled out every trick in the book. i've surpassed most of them. i've told my fiance, and obviously he doesn't like this guy trying to break us up. i still want to be his friend. but with his antics, i've been sitting wondering what if he's right? he told me i was making a mistake from the beginning...is this true? or is he being biased. i know you can't judge and give me the perfect answer w/o knowing itg all... but i can't help but to think what if? I feel awful for stating all this. how can i have these thoughts in having a fiance.... how could i do this to him.... etc.
I feel completely torn, and dont know what to do. i feel like I need to talk to this other guy face to face..but to be frank i'm scared bc i don't know if once i see him i'll get the old feelings back. what would you do? am i terrible? please be kind and no disheartning words or sAYING..YOU'RE AN IDIOT, wtf etc. i need helpful answers. thank you.

2006-09-06 07:58:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This question is from my boyfriend PLEASE help him and answer in detail.

Where exactly is a womens G spot located? Is it easier to hit it with the tonge, fingers, or penis? We can have 4play for almost an hour and she still doesn't have an orgasm. Need help satisfying my beautiful girlfriend,

2006-09-06 07:57:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-06 07:56:56 · 22 answers · asked by sexychick 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you tell someone when you want to be more then a friend?

2006-09-06 07:56:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughters are 2 and 3 yrs old. I nursed both of them and they got used to be put to bed after nursing when totaly asleep. We transition by letting them watch TV with us because we all appreciate the extra time together. Now the TV keep them awake so for a couple of months, we tried to put a good routine bath, toothbrushing and a book but they need us close to them until they fall asleep. Sometimes it takes 30 min! We let them have a sipcup filled with water and a teddy with them. We now we can let them cry for long so it's not an option and the older one can open doors... Any tricks to help us do it quickly or gradually?

2006-09-06 07:55:49 · 22 answers · asked by Mel 5 in Family

I have been in a relationship for 6 years with my boyfriend, and he has gradually started to change his behavior towards me in the past few months. He calls me less, gets upset and critical towards more things that I do, lately has stopped saying I love you back to me on the phone (he claims that he doesn't anymore because he wants to say it "when its least expected"), and after a fight last week, hasn't called me since (5 days). I tried to talk to him about our fight last week, and he told me he loved me, etc, but then he hasn't called me. I don't know what to do...its making me feel terrible because I don't know whats going on.
Please Help!

2006-09-06 07:55:47 · 22 answers · asked by Ginger 2 in Singles & Dating

We always made very passionate love, Slow and easy. Now after 11 years of marriage she wants me to tie her up, spank her, share her with other men (our neighbor), let our dog lick her, and take pictures to post on the internet!
What should I do?

2006-09-06 07:55:25 · 58 answers · asked by she is killing me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my grandpa die back in 1992 i think and he live in the counrty
so i wont to see if he had any thing out there that has not been claimed

2006-09-06 07:54:38 · 6 answers · asked by rhonda_knight10 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Like, say, at a shoe store?

See, it's difficult for me to ask, since I'm mostly a sandal's kind of guy. And hey, even Jesus gets a little nervous sometimes, alright?

2006-09-06 07:54:24 · 13 answers · asked by serengetimonster 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife seems to act like it is too big for her.

2006-09-06 07:54:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All he changed was let his hair grow longer ( not looong, not even shoulder length). Was it his new confidence, the hair???
He does seem smooth to me, but how can I be smooth as well???
Any tips from experienced guys or girls?
PS: We're both thin, and I've got more muscles than him and (except for hair length) we're about equally handsome.

2006-09-06 07:53:27 · 1 answers · asked by yaki 1 in Singles & Dating

a guy that i was talking to told me he knew my boyfriend long time ago and that my man cheat on me who should i belive my boyfriend of 3 years or a guy who i just met 2 weeks ago who haves no need to lie.

2006-09-06 07:53:13 · 25 answers · asked by ruby r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

On Valentine's Day this year, I woke up with a plan to be romantic to my wife. I had it all figured out. My daughter was to be with the grandparents and me and my wife out on the street, dancing, music, tuxedo on, flowers, sushi...

So, while I went out getting ready my wife calls me and is like "What are you doing?" And then I told her. All my hopes and dreams. :P Thinking she was going to be excited and all..

And then she says: "Lol! You're such a pu--y"

LMAO! What gives?

2006-09-06 07:52:58 · 17 answers · asked by Jellinjello 1 in Marriage & Divorce

as Ma'dea; what do most Caucasians refer to their matriarchal as?

2006-09-06 07:52:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have bright red hair and 10 pimples. I have a couple freckles here and their and i am 100 pds over weight. (more to love!) I really need a date because I am the only one who hasn't been asked! Will you please come?? My email is fishies252@yahoo.com if you want to contact me. Anyone is invited. It would be awesome if i could go with more than one guy!

2006-09-06 07:51:18 · 19 answers · asked by Jackie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 07:51:14 · 11 answers · asked by brown 25 2 in Friends