he was alll bout lies, since the beginning of our relationship.... he told me a lie, in to tryin to have sex wit him, n i did it. he lied bout his brothers dying, and gettin shot. N i believed him.... He lied about so much stuff. Ikno wat u guys r thinkin, dump him u could do better. But I just love him with all my heart, i c him at skoo n i just want 3 cry n cry n cry. n run into his arms. But deep inside, i kno he dont care no more, cuz if he did, he would of said somethin wen i broke up wit him, but he didnt say nothing. N i dk i felt that he was avoiding me, n my gurls told me that he looked happy. N tried to fake it that i was happy, i did. in front of his friends, but i couldnt resist some tears.... this is just 2 much, in the letter i broke up wit him, i told him not to talk to me no more, 2 act like he never meet me. N i just kno that i wont b expectin no calls, today or ever... I feel like dying. I just aint strong. I try but its killing me. Dont B MEAN 2 ME PLZ.
2006-09-06 08:01:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let me tell you something... you are not the first person to go through this. First loves are the hardest ones to get over. It hurts alright, It feels like the end of the world. But I promise you that it will go away. Not completely of course, but you don't want to forget what you have learned from this. You have made it through the hardest part, and that was breaking up with him, and if you want it to be, it's all up hill from here. The only advise I can give you is to not give up on yourself. Take care of yourself. Hang out with your friends, do the things you enjoy. You will slowly think about him less and less and one day it won't phase you at all to see him in the halls.You already know he mistreated you and you already know you can do better. But if you are stuck looking back, and not forward, you may miss the right one for you. I know it feels like you can't move on, but you can.. You can , and you will be a stronger person for it. While I am sorry you are having to go through this, I would rather say congratulations on your decision, a decision that was all about you for a change..
2006-09-06 08:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by OnE GiRL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to start avoiding him. Stop having pitty parties and start thinking about yourself. Start doing the things that makes you happy. Keep your mind off of him. Start looking at other men. Also start enjoying your friends company and start doing stuff with them. He is just a dog and just think the next girl has to go through the same stuff. Your better then him and it's about time you pick yourself up and move on!! Good Luck!
2006-09-06 08:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want to be cheated on? that will probably happen if you do go back with him. you can find someone better. i know it will be very, very hard but stay strong. listen to women-enpowering music and try to relate to who's singing. i'd suggest avril lavigne's first cd let go. she's even got a song about breaking up with her bf because he was on weed and lied to her. you've got you're whole life ahead of you to be single and meet other guy that will treat you right. try turning you're sadness into anger and releasing it buy punching a pillow or mattress. hang out with you're girls and you'll see that you CAN live without him! stay strong and good luck!!!
2006-09-06 08:11:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was the hardest paragraph ive ever tried to read.
bottom line : if he lies so much, kick him to the curb.
2006-09-06 08:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by aaron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋