2006-09-06 07:59:25 · 9 answers · asked by adjustintime59 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, but only if:
1. He is willing to be up front with you about EXACTLY what happens when he gets mad, what his state of mind is - especially if he ever gets irrational - as well as, of course, what he actually does;
2. He understands that his anger is not caused by other people, but by his perceptions - i.e. he takes responsibility for his anger;
3. He is actively working on himself to attain better control over his temper;
4. He is willing to talk with you about what you can do to ensure your own safety if, God forbid, he does start to lose it;
5. Preferably, he brings up all of this without your even having to ask him to discuss it.
2006-09-06 08:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, a man with a temper is never a good thing. Watch out. I dated a man with a temper once and at first things were good but then he started yelling at me, then it was pushing me, then it went to hitting me. It went on for 4 years before I finally had enough and left him. Be very careful.
2006-09-06 08:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy_Gemini_Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing to say girl! GET OUT NOW!!!!!!!!! he can if the women is dumb enough to stay. listion to me I am a child of a father with a temper he never hit me he loved me but between my mom and him was very bad and he told my mom is she left he kill him self ok to control her he was a loving man too. But when that temper came out get out of his way! Now I have a temper I am learning to control it but it is hard. And when he died my mom had a hard time getting over the anger of his temper.
And you cant change a man sorry to tell you this my Mom tryed for 21 years and she couldent so dont even try. if you go with a man and you dont like his life style leave.
2006-09-06 08:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by black lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
had one of these in the past.. lots of it is way out of your hands. lots of insecurities and self doubts that comes out as anger BUT remember.. if you arent comfortable with it.. dont be in it. I went through a bad one.. lots and lots of passion and love and when it was good it was really good but finally had to realize that the bads were just too frequent and not worth it. I need stability in a relationship. Had to admit my need and move on..dont sacrifice what you need because one day he might change. if he's not working on it now.. its more important to you than him. Its gotta be the other way around before you'll see positive changes that will stick around
good luck
2006-09-06 08:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much he loves you, because it is really hard to make someone change.
But......if he loves you enough, he will do.
My advise is that you better stay away from anybody that can´t control his temper, anyway.
2006-09-06 08:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by Classy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe but i think you have to try to change him at this tender age so that your relationship will last longer. I know this is a difficult task but it has worked wonders. It takes time but its worth it. Good luck
2006-09-06 08:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by bluedolphin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because eventually it will make u misrible walking on pins and needles all the time never knowing when he is going to freak out.
2006-09-06 08:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by europe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW I COULDNT IM MUCH TO SENSITIVE.I FEEL U SHOULD BE CAREFUL. U NEVER KNOW WHAT A BAD TEMPERED PERSON WILL DO. IF HE EVER HITS U ONE TIME LEAVE AND DONT LOOK BACK. PLZ BE CAREFUL. GOD BLESS U.
2006-09-06 08:08:36 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES ,nothing GOD can not do,keep praying for him,if its the will of GOD,it will change.
2006-09-06 08:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by ayinde m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋