a guy that i was talking to told me he knew my boyfriend long time ago and that my man cheat on me who should i belive my boyfriend of 3 years or a guy who i just met 2 weeks ago who haves no need to lie.
2006-09-06 07:53:13 · 25 answers · asked by ruby r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to figure out what this guy's motives are.
And how much you love your boyfriend.
And communicate this with your boyfriend, keeping in mind that you want to work this out with him...if you do.
Do not keep this to yourself...that would be unfair to you.
Do not come up to him with an accusation...clarify it. Then communicate what steps are needed to mend or rectify the situation.
Keep an open mind...and an open heart.
2006-09-06 07:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by endrshadow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you only met him 2 weeks ago you do not know him at all. you do not know what type of person he is, some people feel good when others are miserable. Also you never know what happened between them two. I suggest that you speak to your boyfriend and try to figure out what went on. And most importantly follow your heart he will never lie to you.
2006-09-06 14:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by andia2amat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should trust in your boyfriend. But if you are in doubt, you should confront him with the information. And see how he reacts. If he doesn't look you in the eye or just looks uncomfortable. I would delve deeper into the info. on him cheating. Also, maybe this other guy is interested in you. And wants to break you guys up. Confront him again also. Just think before you jump.
2006-09-06 14:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you what to believe, but I'll give you my two-cents. This guy could possibly be interested in you so he's saying these things to get you to leave your boyfriend or maybe he is telling the truth because he's a stand-up guy like that. I'd talk to my boyfriend though about this and find out the truth...tell him it's not that you don't trust him, but you have to know because you have to be concerned with STD'S and such....Good luck!!
2006-09-06 14:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would try to find this guy and ask him about it more wat he said and ask him why he told you this, maybe it was just out of spite or maybe he is just a weird stranger who likes to destroy other peoples relationships? ask this guy WHO THE GIRL WAS and if she says its true then it must be....
if you still feel the same way then the thing you must do is simply ask your boyfriend.
-if you can tell he is lying then say to him you dont belive him
-if he tells you its true then be grateful for his honesty but seriosly think about whether hes worth staying with
-if he tells you he didnt and looks genuine then you shud trust him but be careful if you stay with him
remember wat comes around goes around but everyone deserves another chance :)
2006-09-06 15:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
has ur bf ever given u any reason to think other wise.. in all honesty i'd probably believe the guy u just met especially if he can tell me w/whom and when.. then i'd have to bring it to my bf's attn w/out letting him know how i know and see what he says... hell i'd even ask the person who he so-called cheated on me with..
but if u know that ur bf is lying and u continue to stay or u know that ur not gonna leave him then ain't no sense of even dwelling on it or bringing it up...
2006-09-06 15:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. Keep your ears and eyes open. Everything that is done in the dark will come to the light
2006-09-06 14:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by april j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask my boyfriend...if its true
if you know him well enough, you'll be able to tell if he's lieing to u.... or ask your bf...if he knows that guy....c what he has to say about him...... this guy might just be telling you this to make you break up with ur bf...thinking he may have a chance with you or something stupied.....like that- you know how guys r sometimes
if your not sure, i would act like i never met that guy....like it never happened
2006-09-06 15:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by cutefeeties 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl he has all the reason to lie, if he wants you, I mean if he is interested in you the slightest bit then he will do whatever he has to to get with you.
2006-09-06 15:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by Nickerbockers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your boyfriend the benefit of the doubt. Or confront him and see his reaction.
2006-09-06 14:55:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋