commitment?

Question

consider it financially stable+ mature and everything is good at What age is the best for a girl to get married ?
and when do u know that ur ready to commit?

Answer 1

After she has her own life and own stability, that way she doesn't get stuck because its all about his life. Here is some other stuff to think about.

Consider marriage when you have been together long enough to be out of the infatuation stage. When you have discussed ALL the issues involved in life after the wedding like finances, division of household labor, children, in laws, where to live, jobs, time away with friends, sex (how much and how often) and a million other things you haven't thought of. After all of that you consider each part of the vows, and what you consider is the difficult side of them, anybody can be happy when things are going well so,

richer or poorer....still want to be with them in a shack with crackers ala peanut butter for dinner...for the fourth night in a row?

sickness and health...they develop a chronic physical or mental illness and can't get around and can't work, still want to be there?

better or worse...they are in a car accident and you have to spend the rest of your life feeding them and changing their diapers, still want to be married?

keep yourself only to him or her, can you REALLY only have sex with only that person until you die?

THIS is what marriage is, not a fairy tale where everything goes well everyday, the one guarantee you have is that things WILL go wrong. Remember, you answer all these questions after you have passed infatuation, after you know what their bad points are (yes they have some and so do you) and still consider it anyway.

If you think you are up for all of this then maybe you should think about it. Don't forget to consider whether they would stick by you if it was you in any or all of the above scenarios. Check out the question posted here by married people and keep in mind that all of them thought this was the thing to do and the ONE for them when they got married too! There is a book called Lies At The Altar by Dr. Robin Smith, it helps you answer all this and go in to a marriage with your eyes wide open, if you aren't willing to consider all that then what you really want is a pretty ring and a nice party and lots of attention, have them but don't make that a basis for a LIFE. Good luck!

Answer 2

Marriage is for the mature! There is no room for jealous behavior in a marriage. Age well I was 30 when I married and I wouldn't have any sooner and wasn't sure I was ready then but my husband wanted to and so we did... Age has nothing to do with it, it all depends on how mature you both are and how well you communicate and I mean communicate about everything even sex if there is someone hot that walks by you should be able to tell your spouse about it without he or she getting mad! If sexually feelings should come up for a different person a husband and wife should be able to talk about it without it leading to argements - controlled arguements are the only kind you should have. Find the humor in all things. Trust and respect one another as well.

Commite - When you know you are able to be honest about any topic or feeling, when you are ready to trust in one another and not rely on friends...

Answer 3

I was engaged at 25, my fiancee was 33. We saved our money up for our dream wedding and got married shortly after I turned 27 and he was 35. But here's the thing - we got engaged 3 months after we met! We went shopping for wedding rings a month after we started dating.

I recommend a woman get engaged after 25 - there are so many changes that happen between 18 and 25 that it's really the best time.

For men, after 30 - there is such a difference in maturity, it is AMAZING. But this is only true for guys who haven't been married before. I dated some men who were 10-20 yrs. older then me before meeting my hubby, and they were divorced and had retreated back to immature ways.

Answer 4

I think that a girl should be at least in her twenties, but this is only an opinion . Some men or women never grow up at any age. When you get married, there are no guarantees that it will work in any situation . You have to grow together, keep God in your family, remember he owns you and your mate so take care of his property. Good luck and God bless you both.

Answer 5

over 25

Answer 6

how soon are you looking into adding kids to the pic??
that should be part of your decision.

Answer 7

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