this is an addition to my previous question. some of the games women play when dating hurt worse than being beeten senceless!!!!!
2006-09-06 08:02:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with that statement .. emotional games can be the hardest to recovery from .. same with emotional abuse
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-06 08:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. Verbal abuse sucks, it's like the words keep going around and around in your head. Physical abuse, you usually get the verbal abuse along with it. You're beaten down either way. Verbal abuse injures you physically eventually. Mind wise and possible bodily. Moral, stomach, anxiety. You're getting bruised from the inside out and taking the punches to your heart. Verbal and physical abuses is both bad any way you look at it. I don't believe in playing games and will usually walk away the minute I pick up on someone doing it. And believe me I'm getting pretty good at recognizing it. Verbal abuse, the first time is the last time. Physical, no time for it either. I mean who do these idiots think they are anyway?
2006-09-06 08:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by one_sahara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I totally agree.I would rather get hit then get verbally cut.At least you heal from an injury.But words cut more than anything and you don't forget.It sucks that people today when there is so much pain in living that people play bs games.It really sucks and gives you the attitude that all woman are the same.But that is not true.Branch out and look elsewhere.But heal a little first.
2006-09-06 08:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by llgarrett69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, verbal abuse IS a type of abuse..one of the worst kinds. physical wounds can heal.. mental ones, are invisible, and hard to diagnose, much less heal.
what kind of games are u talking about, however? have u ever communicated w/ that person, to find out what was going on? =T either u have met very bad women, or you don't understand how to communicate how you feel to your partner.
1st of all, i suggest u work on yourself, until u feel confident, happy, healthy and Positive that you are a great boyfriend, and person in general. not that u KNOW everything, but u are willing to learn.
2nd, i suggest u figure out what u expect from urself as a boyfriend, what u expect from your girlfriend, and from the relationship. next, find out what your girlfriend expects from herself, from you as a boyfriend, and from the relationship. if u have similar goals,, u have a good chance of working thru things. but if u have different ideas and goals and have a hard time communicating or getting on the same page, u are in for some rough times.
but respect, trust, commitment, and Communication is KEY in being able to work things out w/ ur partner. if u don't trust her to take care of your Feelings, be sensitive, validate your opinions..u are w/ the wrong person. there's nothing wrong w/ continuing ur search to find a woman who will Treat you Right. just as you are trying to learn and treat a woman right. therefore, ur expectations from urself will keep you as accountable as possible, and ur open mind to learn will help you figure out and change what u need to do in order to satisfy ur partner. u also need the same from your girlfriend, and if she is not willing, or not able, that is a problem.
good luck, and remember to keep POSITIVITY around you. if someone continously makes u feel bad, sad, lonely, confused, hurt, negelcted, angry... Anything Negative...it is a bad sign.
take care of urself, do not let yourself be walked all over. that is not what being a man in the relationship means. neither does being the boss.. it is respect, and a partnership.
2006-09-06 08:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are so right, I have been verbal and emotional abused and it hurts, and is brain washing. It is very sad thing that many people(man or women) hurt many other people with their words and actions.
I feel bad hearing other people being treated like this and it needs to be stopped.
Take care and good luck with everything.
2006-09-06 08:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right... I was in an abusive relationship for two years, and I can tell you from experience that physical scars will heal up months afterwards, but it's the emotional scars that stay for life.
2006-09-06 08:05:06 · answer #6 · answered by Loving Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i was just thinking about verbal abuse vs. physical abuse yesterday.......example: on a tv show there was this lady and every one was talking about her while she was still in the room and everyone was pointing out her flaws so the lady says "i have an idea, why dont you all just take turns hitting me w. a four by four" in other words......hitting her w. a four by four would hurt just as much as what they were saying about her.....
2006-09-06 08:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by Heat seeking missile 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this isnt neccesarily a question now is it but well its true regardless...
2006-09-06 08:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by mrs_aristizabal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋