Family & Relationships - 26 August 2006

My boyfriend likes to dirty talk during sex. This always gets me off, but sometimes I wonder if he really wants the things he is talking about. Some examples: a guy doing him while he's doing me, another couple in bed with us, me watching him do another girl, etc. It gets me hot but afterwards I always wonder if I'm really satisfying him. He says he's just having fun but still... So guys, if you say similar things to your girl, is it meaningless or do you start to truly desire those things over time? HELP!

2006-08-26 06:24:36 · 16 answers · asked by paddington_ck 4 in Singles & Dating

My friend is really mean, and she talks about everyone we know behind their back and says how much she hates them and stuff but when she is with them she acts like their best friend. She is just not any fun to be around since she is manipulative and makes everything about her. But she's also a recovering bulimic and when we exclude her from activities because we don't really enjoy being around her, she blames her entire eating disorder on us and says that when we "ditch her" it just makes her recovery harder. I don't want to push her back to being where she was with her eating disorder but I also can't stand being around her. What should I do?

2006-08-26 06:23:50 · 21 answers · asked by keiko 2 in Friends

i've heard that if a guy doenst find the time to call/email/talk online with his gf EVERYDAY in a long distance relationship, it means that hes cheating on her. is this true? could he possibly just be trying not to seem desperate or anything like that? i've heard that even if he is busy he will MAKE time to communicate with her if he truly does love her; he will always "chase" after her if he really does love her. I would like to hear from some guys please. Thanks

2006-08-26 06:23:35 · 6 answers · asked by kate S 1 in Singles & Dating

As you grow older you get more experience in love and relationships, but the baggage builds up as well - do you find relationships get easier, or is the opposite true?

2006-08-26 06:22:58 · 17 answers · asked by McAtterie 6 in Singles & Dating

a) always been open to you.
b) been slammed in your face
c) been opened, you've been invited in --- then asked to leave.

2006-08-26 06:22:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean starting age.

2006-08-26 06:22:34 · 16 answers · asked by swissheelcrimson 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I send a message to my ex apologizing for dumping him by text message.A week after we brokeup.I dumped him by a text message after 3 months of dating.I sent him two text message last night but he never responded ,what is your opinion?

2006-08-26 06:20:48 · 25 answers · asked by movin12006 3 in Singles & Dating

email addresses. she seemed like someone i'd really like to be friends with and get to know better. so recently, i emailed her to invite her to a party but she replied by saying she couldn't go the party since she was busy. i'd still like to pursue her for friendship or more. how do i go about doing this without being too assertive and turning her off.

2006-08-26 06:20:38 · 20 answers · asked by tom 1 in Friends

Just seem there is a lot of teens on right now and no good questions to answer. Anyone else think the same here?

2006-08-26 06:19:39 · 21 answers · asked by shookyloo® 5 in Singles & Dating

Im always talking to great guys, who are cute, charming and just amazing! Or so i think...And then somehow or another it goes all wrong and i end up being hurt and knowing that they can get better. Im now beginning to think i can never find the right guy. I dont know what to do as i just want someone i can be happy with. Is that too much to ask for?

2006-08-26 06:19:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a very nice young lady on line who is very sweet and kind.I would love to have her as a friend,but not a relationship.We have had sex a couple of times,but she is not my type.She is a large woman and i don't want to hurt her feelings by telling her that this is the reason i don't want to have a relationship with her.I think she is starting to have feelings for me and i really don't like to hurt people's feelings.She has 5 children and she has everything in her personality that i love in a woman,i'm just not attracted to large women.What do i do about this situation?

2006-08-26 06:18:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if your gonna answer go to a rehab center i already tried 3 i tried to quit one time but i could only make it for 2 months i function well at my job and everything i drink by myself and i feel i am never going to be happy. male 24

2006-08-26 06:18:54 · 16 answers · asked by elhuevudodechicago 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

why am i always wet u know what i mean, i always have 2 change my panties

2006-08-26 06:18:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Have you ever had a good looking "other" that treated you bad? Or a "not so good looking other" that was very good to you but you were embarresed by their appearance? Which would you rather "settle down" with in the long run of growing old?

2006-08-26 06:17:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother gets bad headaches everyday, does that mean something? I'm really worried about her and she says it has nothing to do with her job as a paralegal. She doesn't drink or anything, I don't know what it could be. She's 43 years old.

2006-08-26 06:17:44 · 22 answers · asked by Tammy 3 in Family

We have a very close relationship, always talking, phoning and seeing each other, and without having to supply massive detail or reason, she's having a very tough time of it at the moment (and I mean visits from the baliffs, eviction notices etc), AND I CAN ASSURE YOU THIS IS THROUGH NO FAULT OF HER OWN. Although I'm trying to be supportive as I can, and do as much as I can, it feels as if she has cut me off - she won't talk to me etc and I want to be there for her, but it seems she's having none of it - it feels like she's turning into a recluse. She has medical issues which I feel are being exagerated by all the stress she is under. What can I do to make her know I'm here and I care? I don't want her to be doing this on her own.

Serious answers only please, I don't need people lecturing, or shouting put-downs or insults, as I haven't been able to explain the whole history or situation. Thanks.

2006-08-26 06:17:29 · 17 answers · asked by NZ 1 in Family

ok thre is is this girl in my hi-school that really gets on my nerves becasue she thinks that she knows everything and that she likes cheating on like homework!! one day we were in the cafeteira talking to our friends(it was after-school) she had homework to do!! but she wanted to copy it from me and my friend. when i said she should do her homework because she had plenty of time to finish it!! she told it was not my bussiness to be concerned about her school work. it told her that she is a spoiled brat because her parents pay alot of money for her to go to this school!! then she threw a temper. when she did this a teacher saw her and banned her to go in the cafeteria after school for a month. then now she is blaming on me that it was my fault. is it ma fault? rite now we are not talking at all to each other we just pass each other in the hallways without saying anything. also she is most of my classes which bothers me so much.so what should i do? still ignore or forgive her?bye

2006-08-26 06:16:55 · 20 answers · asked by babe 2 in Friends

your mother (who had been single for 15 yrs) married a guy that she had only known for a few month over the internet. i mean he's a great guy with wife and kids. just that his wife is terminally ill. is it too fast? as her children should you be supportive?

2006-08-26 06:16:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

People I'm just curious to know is it the sex?

2006-08-26 06:16:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

and you think you should go back to your marriage but you know it's the "right" thing to do but you have this nagging feeling there's something else out there for you? How can you put that feeling behind and be satisfied with your current situation?

2006-08-26 06:14:48 · 17 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was in a great relationship with a Latin American girl I met whilst studying abroad, and we lived together for three months during my last year at University in the UK. Coming here to stay with me was a big sacrifice for her in the first place - living with a boyfriend is not the 'done thing' over there.

Unfortunately, after this time our money ran out and she had to go back home. So we ended up in a long distance relationship, which we both found way too stressful as we had no idea when we might be able to see each other again, and ended up splitting up. Now I'm back home living with my one parent who is on a very low income. I have a temporary job which is pretty much full time until I find something related to my degree. My girlfriend's parents think we're still together, and she is in a difficult situation. We both care a lot for each other still, and she wants to come and live with me. It would be very difficult, but I think we'd be happy...What's best?

2006-08-26 06:14:41 · 11 answers · asked by Tim S 1 in Family

ladys meeting men

2006-08-26 06:14:21 · 1 answers · asked by isobelhayes 2 in Singles & Dating

im in a shy phase where im having trouble talking to my guy how do i get compfortable w/talking to him!!!

2006-08-26 06:12:48 · 16 answers · asked by cliona 2 in Singles & Dating

This year for homecomng i don't have a date yet and the dance is in two weeks i really want to ask this guy from my church but we are a really small church and if he said no it would be very akward i dont go to school with him so i only see him on sundays but we talk during the week i'm just afraid of what will happen to our friendship if he says no for some reason should i risk it or stay back (we have already talked about dating and we thought it wouldnt be a very good idea because it would be wierd if our whole church knew)

2006-08-26 06:12:43 · 17 answers · asked by Meg 1 in Singles & Dating

your mother married a guy that she had only known for a few month over the internet. i mean he's a great guy with wife and kids. just that his wife is terminally ill. is it too fast?

2006-08-26 06:10:56 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend lives in NY and I live in Missouri,yeah i know it sounds stupid, but he told me he loves me and i talk to him on the phone every single day. But my problem is that I started school thursday and i don't get to talk to him like at alll b/c he works from 2pm-11pm. What do I do?

2006-08-26 06:09:37 · 24 answers · asked by Sports 4 Life! 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-26 06:08:42 · 15 answers · asked by judgemartiniz 5 in Singles & Dating

I need help on how to find this info for school so someone PLEASE HELP!! and thanx a bunch.

2006-08-26 06:07:59 · 22 answers · asked by Person 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend whose e-mail a/c is suspended. And I know he doesn't have any other e-mail a/c. So he might not be able to remember his friends e-mail a/c . What can he do to resume his e-mail a/c and get back the information in his e-mail address.

2006-08-26 06:07:20 · 1 answers · asked by psmom2006 4 in Family

2006-08-26 06:07:04 · 17 answers · asked by ugogirl_gurl_cool 1 in Singles & Dating