I was in a great relationship with a Latin American girl I met whilst studying abroad, and we lived together for three months during my last year at University in the UK. Coming here to stay with me was a big sacrifice for her in the first place - living with a boyfriend is not the 'done thing' over there.
Unfortunately, after this time our money ran out and she had to go back home. So we ended up in a long distance relationship, which we both found way too stressful as we had no idea when we might be able to see each other again, and ended up splitting up. Now I'm back home living with my one parent who is on a very low income. I have a temporary job which is pretty much full time until I find something related to my degree. My girlfriend's parents think we're still together, and she is in a difficult situation. We both care a lot for each other still, and she wants to come and live with me. It would be very difficult, but I think we'd be happy...What's best?
2006-08-26 06:14:41 · 11 answers · asked by Tim S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Get over it ......
2006-08-26 06:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by Bob The Builder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously know that long distance relationships don't pan out. ever. seeing as how you both are giddy for each other still after all this I think you should go for it. yeah, things might be tight for awhile but you'll have each other for support and the job situation will improve. regardless of how bad you think it is there are always some jobs out there for you. I say scrounge up some dough and get her a plane ticket here and go from there.
2006-08-26 13:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt say living together again would be such a good idea unless u two are planning on starting something back up again. But if its really something u want and u can be happy just being friends living in the same place then i say go ahead and give it a shot.
2006-08-26 13:21:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
focus on your love and send her back to home and earn money while after go and pick her don't give up your love or partner,
be honest for her ask her do same and don't make any conditions regulations belive each other careful about your life[prevent from leisure for while].
your so lucky coz you having girl with love, yes i realize she going to move from you.
do you know....
love become strong when lover depart or stay far from u only.
accept that leave but determine she's yours everything will be next.
best wishes as brother of that girl.
contact me anything else,
trust in god, help poors and elders, get blesses from elders,
2006-08-26 13:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by danniel s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living together is great and a wonderful way to find out if you will make it together. But if neither of you have a real job and money is short then you will find it very hard indeed.
I wish you luck.
2006-08-27 04:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
were you gonna live? things sound pretty pushed too th limits as they are never mind adding another person to the situation.but if you truly love this person and want to be together then im sure you find a way round it.hope it works out for you but tread carefully
2006-08-26 13:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you both think it`s the right thing to do and want to be with each other then you should go for it,goodluck.
2006-08-26 13:21:36 · answer #7 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to fly here (she pays for the trip) and then live happily ever after.
2006-08-26 13:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by wgh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r in love let her come live with you, u only get one chance in life i say go 4 it x
2006-08-26 20:03:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say you wait save up a little money then make sure you're comfortable financially then let her come live with you
2006-08-26 13:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋