Should I ask him???

Question

This year for homecomng i don't have a date yet and the dance is in two weeks i really want to ask this guy from my church but we are a really small church and if he said no it would be very akward i dont go to school with him so i only see him on sundays but we talk during the week i'm just afraid of what will happen to our friendship if he says no for some reason should i risk it or stay back (we have already talked about dating and we thought it wouldnt be a very good idea because it would be wierd if our whole church knew)

Answer 1

Go for it ! What have you got to lose ? The worst that could happen is him saying no. If he says no, it's not your fault. He just didn't wanna do it. Even if he does say no, maybe it's cuz he doesn't like going to dances. Lotsa guys don't like to dance. Let him know that you don't have a date (you don't have to use that word) & that you'd like him to go w/ you to homecoming. Take a chance !!! :) Why would something happen to your friendship ? If the guy doesn't wanna go he doesn't wanna go...

Answer 2

You can ask him but not at the church meeting.

Explain to him and about the dance and ask him when talking to him during the week.
And why would the whole church know about it?
Important: If you really like him and he says no, dont get disheartened. Also be the same friend you are with him- Yes this can be done.

Answer 3

Girl ask him. If not someone else will snag him and you will never know what would have happened. You dont want to play the what if i would game. It sucks and you regret not doing it. The worse that can happen is him saying No. So go for it.

Your church will not judge you if they follow there beliefs. Plus, your going to a dance not walking down the aisle.

Good Luck!

Answer 4

i think you should go for it cause if you dont ur always are goin to wonder besides you can always have a back-up plan for example: ask him and if he looks like hes not intrested in you that way then add that you could go just as friends. also, if you guys have feelings or were talking bout goin out, dont not go out cause of your church i go to a small church and people go out and break up all the time its not that big of a deal, but NEVER not do something because of what someone else would think its a big waist of time

Answer 5

I think you're just too much worried about other persons view. I do think you should ask him, I doubt he will say no (unless he already have a gf, but I think you would know if he did by now).

I think that your church will look favorably to your relationship, since you're both two members of it.

Be discreet, but I think that at one time or another, some people of the church will know if you're dating. And, as I said, I think they will think it's a good thing.

Answer 6

I had a situation where the guy I wanted to go with could not ask me because of circumstances. I was told that if I wanted to go with him I had to ask him myself. I did, but I didn't say "hi I like you and want you to be my date." I told him that he was a really good friend and I thought it would be fun if we went together. He said yes right off and we had a great time.

Answer 7

Set it up casually. Many people bring friends as dates to their homecoming dance or prom. So ask him as a friend and there should be no problems. After that, go wherever the mood takes you.

Answer 8

just tell him that ur homecomeing dance is there and u dont want to go alone. so just as him if he would come with u as a friend. otherwise u r thinking of not going. i am sure he will not turn u down if u guys r friends

Answer 9

I'd just ask him if he wants to go to the dance as friends and see where it leads from there. Who knows maybe you two will hit it off really well :)

Answer 10

Be honest with him and tell him how you really feel. Even if all he sees you for is a good friend then he should say yes and esscort you to the dance. I would. Go for it girl.