My boyfriend likes to dirty talk during sex. This always gets me off, but sometimes I wonder if he really wants the things he is talking about. Some examples: a guy doing him while he's doing me, another couple in bed with us, me watching him do another girl, etc. It gets me hot but afterwards I always wonder if I'm really satisfying him. He says he's just having fun but still... So guys, if you say similar things to your girl, is it meaningless or do you start to truly desire those things over time? HELP!
2006-08-26 06:24:36 · 16 answers · asked by paddington_ck 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is he a refuse worker
2006-08-26 06:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you just gotta talk about what you're thinking about. Imagination is a good thing. Are you talking about when you're actually in the act, or when you're on the phone or text messages, emails or IM's? the few examples you quoted means you have some good experience already. Add some more phrases to make your man go harder on you.
2014-11-19 19:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by @$@ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my girlfriend and i talk nasty like that during sex often. it does get us really turned on but because we understand the difference between fantasy and reality. for example, the idea of another person in bed with us is such a turn on during sex however, i don't think that i am ready to see someone else having sex with the person that i love the most. when it comes down to it, no matter how heavy the fantasizing may get, the one person that turns me on the most is my girlfriend.
2006-08-26 06:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by iluvmynotebook 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think your guy is crazed about the whole thing cause hes hetting some so he says everything that comes to his mind!!!Other than the part about being with another dude it all sounds pretty normal!!! Run wild with some of the fantasies it will excite you even more!!!!
2006-08-26 06:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by fxbeto 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for most guys it is just fantasy sex talk! however, every once in a blue moon after many times having sex, etc. the guy might put the girl in a position to act out the fantasy. also, he might test her to see if she really wants to do it when all it his to him is fantasy.
continue to enjoy the sex but make it clear that is all you want it to be!
2006-08-26 06:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by lou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he's not shopping around and pointing out possible candidates for these ventures,he's only trying to satisfy you. Just go with it and stop questioning it. Have fun now!!!
2006-08-26 06:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its totally normal to talk dirty during sex but about what you want your partner to do to you not to other people or other guys
be careful cause there´s a lot of guys that would love to have a homo intercorse but they dont cause they dont want to look gay..so! be careful hun
2006-08-26 06:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by miliscal123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwwwww, no I don't say things like that but I do talk about what I would and want to do to her, not other people. Sounds linda creapy.
2006-08-26 06:27:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes they just think of that while sex and when it's over think nothing else about it. Just fantasy.
2006-08-26 06:28:36 · answer #9 · answered by nina j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is talking about a guy doing him get rid of him he is queer as a 3 doller bill
2006-08-26 06:33:51 · answer #10 · answered by Bob D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋