Family & Relationships - 23 August 2006

I met my boyfriend 2 years ago online. He lives one state over and we see each other every coulple of months, or longer. When we are together, it's absolute bliss. I feel like I'm the happiest person on the earth. But when we are apart, it's not so good. I find myself getting mad and annoyed at him often. I can't figure out why, so I was wondering if the Dr. Phils and Oprahs out there could help me.

Also, I recently met a new "friend" online (online again, I know. Spare me). He is THE sweetest guy I know. It started when he was play flirting with me, and I did it back, thinking it was no harm. Well, a week later, we're always "cuddling", "kissing" etc (it's through chat), but I find myself REALLY enjoying it. I actually really put myself into it. I do NOT want to hurt this guy. His morales are so high, if I told him I do have a BF, I'm pretty sure he would never talk to me again. But there is no way I'm telling my BF about him either. What do I do? I don't want to hurt them...

2006-08-23 23:58:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Be honest , how many of you thought it should read SEX when it actually reads TEA.....which 1 u answer too is your decision

2006-08-23 23:58:14 · 26 answers · asked by ztt_66 2 in Singles & Dating

All i want for christmas is.........a guy called matt to ask me out!
I'm so bored, do you think i should do something a normal, sane person wouldn't normally do just to get a laugh out of a very boring day or should i talk to my feet instead?

2006-08-23 23:58:08 · 7 answers · asked by missy minx 3 in Singles & Dating

COULD THERE BE A STRONG POSSIBILITY THAT MY OWN COUSIN IS JEALOUS OF ME....SHE IS ALWAYS COMPETING AGAINST ME FOR WHAT EVER REASON I DONT KNOW, AND IF I'M TALKING TO A GUY SHE ALWAYS FIND SOMETHING NEGATIVE TO SAY ABOUT THAT PERSON...SHE DID SOMETHING THAT REALLY PISSED ME OFF YESTURDAY, WELL TO MAKE A LONG STORY SHORT I CAUGHT HER ON MY MYSPACE PAGE PRETENDING TO BE ME. JUST TO SEE IF ANY OF HER BOYFRIENDS WOULD TALK BACK TO ME, I ASKED HER WHY SHE WOULD DO THAT AND SHE SAID SHE JUST WANTED TO SEE IF THEY WERE GONNA TALK TO ME AND THAT WE SHOULD PULL THAT MORE OFTEN. WHAT IN THE HELL IS THE GIRLS PROBLEM

2006-08-23 23:57:25 · 1 answers · asked by tanya m 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

instead of yelling at my husband i start to clean and stay quiet. he finds me more "scarier" in his word. he feels that i should yell at him because it will give him an idea why i am angry. he doesn't argue with me much so i don't find the need to take things out of hand and go baserk on him, plus im not the yelling type. ladies what do you do honestly when your mad at your spouse or boyfriends and why? Men what do you prefer and be honest now.

2006-08-23 23:56:23 · 5 answers · asked by ooh la la 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

they say...it is on the rise......
we live in a world of how can i reduce the time it takes. this is from, fast food, shopping, phone calls, internet speed, you name it we have tried to cut our loss of time.
my question....is marriage becoming the same way? make it or break it.........just don't waste my time?
and is it a bad thing?

2006-08-23 23:55:05 · 8 answers · asked by rock 4 in Marriage & Divorce

it becomes hard for most of us men to think of aproaching a lady and start a conversation when you really that gal because of the way some ladies react when you aproach them. may be it is in the way the aproach is made, but how is it supposed to be done?

2006-08-23 23:50:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If this is actually a fact,Whats the logic?does this particular behaviour has smothing we can gain biologically?

2006-08-23 23:49:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do All Boy's Think The Same??Do They All Just Look For Sex???Or what type Of A Body You Have??Seem's That Way..BUT......I Maybe Wrong...So Tell Me what You think!

2006-08-23 23:49:48 · 16 answers · asked by babipink_panther 1 in Friends

i have read many questions about it.i would like to know what does it mean.......

2006-08-23 23:46:56 · 24 answers · asked by daisy d 3 in Singles & Dating

Where is a good place to meet guys? I don't like going to bars much and I am in college right now. I am not working. Does that make me look undesireable to a man?

2006-08-23 23:45:18 · 19 answers · asked by cottoncandysky40 2 in Singles & Dating

My in-laws ALWAYS invite the whole family over whenever we visit them, and I find it very overwhelming.

We don't spend any one-on-one time with anyone, we just spend long meals together as a group (2-3) hours.
Since it always seems to be someone's birthday or a holiday, there are always "We love you" and "Our family is so special because..." speeches.
I feel like everyone is going to join hands and sing Kumbaya, or something!

On the other hand, people almost never ask each other "How are you?" or "What's new?", because they are focussed on the family as a whole, not on the individuals within it.
I feel like a participant in a cult, where the members don't matter, only the cult. It grates on my nerves -- am I wrong to feel this way?

How often do I have to visit them each year? How often do YOU visit? I know that this varies depending on distance and culture, so please state your country or culture (if you don't mind) and how far you live from your in-laws.

2006-08-23 23:44:31 · 21 answers · asked by Victoria 6 in Family

with me it was at night in a field watche by 12 cows and er a helicopter.

Can't a guy get ANY peace?

2006-08-23 23:44:28 · 18 answers · asked by noisy 2 in Weddings

Both say they love me. I have made no promises, have not lied in any way, or mislead one or the other. One is a sort of cute kitten like purr of a gal, the other, a sort of intellectual counterpart and with 2 kids I adore,so, should I just sit back and enjoy, or, feel guilty?

2006-08-23 23:43:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-23 23:43:35 · 45 answers · asked by plinky 2 in Friends

2006-08-23 23:43:12 · 65 answers · asked by noisy 2 in Weddings

ok it was sumer and it started off like any other day i go out with my friends and do stuff I left to go to a computer cafe and i accidentaly tripped on the rug and kissed this guy by accident (the guy was really cute)then i got so embarrased and ran outside and heard everyone laughing so after vacation the first day of classes arrived and i saw him there he tried to talk to me but I waas too shy ok so now the question is should i go for him ?or leave it like that?

2006-08-23 23:40:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 23:40:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 23:39:52 · 9 answers · asked by dartmouth_07 1 in Singles & Dating

birth day gift

2006-08-23 23:38:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hear people tell others to get over someone that doesnt like them. They say you will find someone who likes you for who you are. Are people just passing false hope? You people really believe what you say?

2006-08-23 23:38:45 · 10 answers · asked by cottoncandysky40 2 in Singles & Dating

i wanna date white gal......anyone..willing go out with me...

2006-08-23 23:37:59 · 15 answers · asked by redmonky212 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 23:37:08 · 9 answers · asked by ludacris_courtney 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-23 23:36:52 · 9 answers · asked by Frankie 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-23 23:34:02 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

2006-08-23 23:33:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you guys think out there?Comments please....

2006-08-23 23:32:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have known this guy for three years.Met him at a conference and we got along very well.We kept in touch.He said he loved me used to call me almost every day and said he wants to marry me.Now i move to his country and he knew it and didn't see me for four months until i confronted him with it.I saw him only 3 or 4 time in 6 months, had some intimate moments together but not too intimate.The first date he took me to a club...and he knows i don't dance.He took me to his place but i didn't let him take me for granted.He called me once a week or 2weeks or even a month.I have now moved and he didn't even say good bye.He called me later and he said he FORGOT.I really need to understand this.I have tried to forget about him but i know it is easier from a distance and i am going back soon.Any ideas

2006-08-23 23:32:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's my mums 50th This year. Whats an awesome thing to get her?? I dont want to get her Jewellery cause thats all other people got her for other birthdays. Anyone have any idea's??? I want it to be REALLY good..

2006-08-23 23:32:07 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-08-23 23:30:36 · 15 answers · asked by Nomad 2 in Friends