Family & Relationships - 23 August 2006

Did that make sense? I'm not very good with writing and grammar. Anyways. I was on my boyfriends myspace the other night and his friend (this girl) commented him and wrote a really weird word to him...something like "zelnak, or zorlak" or something. So when I asked my boyfriend what that meant, he just responded with "nothing", and when asked again he said " its just an old joke between me and a friend", He want to say anything else. Of course I inquired a little bit more about the joke, then he finally got mad and said i should just drop the subject. Im irritated, and im curious and frustrated why can't he tell me what the meaning of this word or joke means. Im also frustrated because hes keeping a secret. Should I be mad about this still and keep on asking him? or should i just let it go...?

2006-08-23 21:14:30 · 10 answers · asked by kalolaina 2 in Singles & Dating

When a relationship goes to hell, or when the man cheats, why is the woman always blamed? I thought relationships were equal (or as equal as humanly possible), and I also believed that people were responsible for themselves and not others. So what's the deal?

2006-08-23 21:14:23 · 17 answers · asked by Marianna 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean if we ml,what should i do?

2006-08-23 21:13:32 · 8 answers · asked by winnie 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a foot fedish i don't think it's a sick one i just enjoy a pretty womens foot i cant help myself me now x-girlfriend did not understand . i mean what woman would not like to have a foot rub or more at any time if anyone has any input on this please let me know ggod or bad i'll take it all kevin

2006-08-23 21:13:05 · 8 answers · asked by k dog 4 in Singles & Dating

be honest. cuz i want her virginity so bad.

2006-08-23 21:13:03 · 13 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

he never ask for sex before,but recently,he always ask me to ml.why?

2006-08-23 21:12:37 · 10 answers · asked by winnie 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the different b\w like and love? to day some 1 told me that he likes me is that mean he love me?

2006-08-23 21:11:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

a guy i have been hooking up with heard i hooked up with his friend...theyve always been in competition over girls. including me. How do most guys react? would he think im dirty...want to win me? want to give me the cold shoulder? What would u do?

2006-08-23 21:09:54 · 15 answers · asked by kittykatB4 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 21:09:12 · 3 answers · asked by sabrina 1 in Singles & Dating

I am all alone in Bangalore as she left me for God knows why. I want to cry with my friend and I am not comfortable with my guys. Can I find a true friend(girl) here in Bangalore who can understand my situation and offer me guidance on how to overcome this grief. It is killing me as I have no one to share and am unable to concentrate on my work. I hate crying as I do not get tears, but there is a pain within me that reminds me of her every moment. I am looking out for a true friend who can just chat with me on the phone and listen to my story and do nothing more. A friend who can let me share offer some relief as life seems to be a big hell here in Bangalore as I am feeling terribly lonely. Only Girls need reply please.

2006-08-23 21:07:30 · 4 answers · asked by Chakravarthy S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 21:07:24 · 10 answers · asked by moulouk 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 21:07:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-23 21:06:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Many women found with tongue and vulva piercing....why they do ? does not this cause trouble to male during ******** by woman...at the same time vulva piercing would not hurt man?

2006-08-23 21:06:39 · 3 answers · asked by CXSY 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 21:06:38 · 31 answers · asked by 1919 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 21:06:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend trowing backflips cause i talked to my ex who is happily married now with 2 kids

2006-08-23 21:06:30 · 30 answers · asked by sweetlily 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

the last email she said she love him; he needs to decide; & she will stop at nothing to get what she wants..him. then called me and said, there is something I need to know. (blackmaling my husband) When her husband heard about the affair, he threatened to kill my husband & our kids; including me; so I told him nothing, he believes her; but told me play the game; she wanted me to tell him the truth so that he'd leave her for cheating & mine leave me for putting us in danger; that leaves the doors open for her to make the move; I am currently in couseling w/my husband and pray every night; she feels as if she did nothing wrong; she told everyone in my family I am crazy & made this up; I can't find it in my heart to forgive her, I cut myself off w/my fam? I thought we were best friends; our kids play together & hubby's hang out; my last conv. w/her I really cussed her out! now I stay in church to keep sane, am I wrong to forgive him and not her?

2006-08-23 21:05:48 · 7 answers · asked by sassy lady 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

well u c i m not able to have a gud relationship with my hubby cos of my in laws (we have a joint family)my hubby wont live without his parents ,i cant really adjust to their system,its at times very difficult to cope with sum1 always trying to teach you how to raise kids wat to make and all that.now i have managed so far but the fact is that now i m not able to even pretend in front of my hubby that i dont dislike them.its gettin tuffer for me to control my tongue and it ends up in a fight.so wat do i do divorce is out since i like my hubby except for his being too much of mom pa;s son.i know at times that at times if i keep quiet i will not loose anything , pls share sum incidents or motivating words so that i keep my mouth zipped

2006-08-23 21:05:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-23 21:04:53 · 10 answers · asked by dasiy s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi Ladies and girls,

I have a question. I met this guy on internet and talked to him on the phone few times. I met him on a dating site (Its a paid site). So may be in a week or so I will be meeting him. There is nothin as i am having feelings or anything we just talk casually. We will be meeting more like acquaintances nothin like date or stuff.

WHAT I WANT TO ASK IS HOW SHOULD I CHECK THE FACT THAT HE HAS GIVEN ME. (as i already had a bad experience a guy was something else than wht he told me) DEMANDING THE ID CARD ON FIRST MEETING WOULD BE SOMETHING RUDE I GUESS. I JUST WANT TO MAKE SURE HE IS WHAT HE HAS TOLD ME ABOUT HIMSELF.

PLEASE HELP
THANKS

2006-08-23 21:04:41 · 6 answers · asked by Physio Student 1 in Singles & Dating

The last 3 years I've worked about 10 months..... My wife has been working constantly for that time picking up my slack while bills pile up. I felt really bad when she brought this up to me, and I realized I had to start working again. I started looking for work when she told me "I think we should think about seperating" but this time I REALLY wanted to work....We decided I should take the kids and go to my moms for a week to decide what we want out of life. when I got back a had an awesome job within a week and she was so happy.... the problem is I lost it a week later and that brought back all her feelings despite me getting another great job within another week of searching (took me months when didn't want to work). So 3 days ago (the day before I got the other job) I hear those words again "we should think about seperating" the next day when I get the job she tells me she can tell I've changed, and wants me to stay. The next night she says her mind is going back and forth. HELP!

2006-08-23 21:04:22 · 13 answers · asked by mikesmailforjobs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

One of my closest friends is so secretive towards me and everyone else about her true feelings. She never tells me how she feels towards someone til she's over them for about a year or more. What can I do to get her to open up more?

2006-08-23 21:03:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i was at my summer traning for 42 days. i meet with a girl. intally she shows interst in me i also likes her,after some days she irritated with the peoples and their comments and she dont talk to me. my time was over and i talk on the phone she talks me on the phone till yet i have not propose her i want to propose her and want to meet her but she start giving excues and she is very busy also with her work i cant understand what to do should i propose on the phone or wait more and propose after meeting her???

2006-08-23 21:02:21 · 16 answers · asked by manish d 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm going on a set up date this weekend with a doctor and want to make a good impression. Is the woman's career important? I'm a beauty therapist. So not high powered like him but I am smart.

2006-08-23 21:01:11 · 19 answers · asked by littleflower 2 in Singles & Dating

It wasn't an official relationship, but I liked this girl for a while and I just found out she felt the same way and it was headed for a real relationship. But I cut her off all of a sudden. I didn't give her a reason, other than I am too busy, but deep down it was b/c she is white and I am black. I know it may sound wrong, but thats how I was raised...my dad working for the "man" and being taught white is evil and all that. Anyways, what should I do? If anything

2006-08-23 21:00:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Am I blind cause I never see them, anyone else like that!

2006-08-23 20:59:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the thing is kinda hard to explain...its "almost" sex but idk

2006-08-23 20:58:58 · 8 answers · asked by hopeless 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to try a different Position tonight with my boyfriend! can you tell my yalls favorite?

2006-08-23 20:56:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want somebody to show me how todo it

2006-08-23 20:55:50 · 15 answers · asked by amaaran 1 in Friends