Family & Relationships - 23 August 2006

For some reason, I get bored of sex alot, and have to be coerced into having it. Don't get me wrong, I'm not gay, and I'm not religious, and I LOOOOOVE women with a fiery passion. For some reason though, I'd just rather cuddle most of the time, sex is kind of like a sporting event to me, or a really romantic encounter, I don't really like to just 'have it' for no damned reason.

When a girl starts pushing me into it I sometimes get really annoyed, but persist because I don't want to hurt her feelings, even though I'd rather not do it. It's not a life-shattering problem or anything, I'm thankful that women want to have sex with me, but I do find it odd that I am not horny often and am girl-crazy at the same time.

Are there any girls out there who've dated a guy like this? Any guys with the same problem?

Perhaps it's because i'm concerned with college and working? Perhaps because it takes alot of energy and I'm lazy? I love sex, but don't want very often.

2006-08-23 20:09:11 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been best friends with the guy and he's asked me out before but i continuiously told him we were just friends.
but he moved away. And i wont see him for 3 years. Its only been one and i always feel alone without him. He's the perfect guy for me but im not sure how to tell him so.
He's the only man I'd ever even think of marring.
Can anyone help me?

2006-08-23 20:09:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've met my boy-friend just for about 13 months.Five months ago, he made a trip to my home country to take me home.During the two weeks, everynight he tried to have sex with me but at that time I was not yet ready.(I was a virgin before having an intimacy relationship with him.) Now I moved here living with him,I don't know whether I am addicted to sex or because I am the NEW in an intimacy relationship, it just turned me on every time he's holding me tight and kissing me in the bed. He, however sometimes just cuddled up to me before sleeping(after working overnight). So, we only have sex when he's day off.(It's about 2 times a week). We both are 40 years old. He got married for 10 years then he was single for 5 years before meeting me. I know he's tired from working overnight but he fell asleep easily once he hit the hay.Don't know if I'm green & didn't do it well even kissing so turn him off.Should I let go because we both felt great for sex and he's gentle (had to wait until I come)

2006-08-23 20:07:31 · 10 answers · asked by NEW 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I grew up in the US and have always had a preference for Caucasian women, but for some reason or other, they don't particularly like me. Maybe I am not aggressive enough. I think I am a pretty good looking guy. I come from a good background and have a good education and good job. I am not a wierdo, I just want to meet a nice Caucasian girl and try dating someone from a different cultural background. I asked my Caucasian guy friend and he told me the Caucasian girls he knows aren't particularly into Asian guys. Can someone give me some advice?

2006-08-23 20:05:49 · 11 answers · asked by excelonx 1 in Singles & Dating

the mental state of such kids and the affect of the same on their health.. any remedial measures that can be adopted for their welfare

2006-08-23 20:05:41 · 7 answers · asked by lawyer_rajiv 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend found out that I've been cutting myself and now she doesn't want anything to do with it because she says I'm a "attention whore" even though it wasn't even for attention at all and I'd been trying my best to hide it (and had suceeded for a long time, but then I was tying my hair up and my sleeve slid down and Liza just happened to look at my arm right at that second). How do I get my friend back? And how to I get her to not tell other people cause I don't want everyone at school to think I'm some kind of freak more than they already do?

2006-08-23 20:05:31 · 17 answers · asked by xfallenangelstearsx 2 in Friends

my parents are against my affair just because he belongs to different caste and my father reputation will be destroyed .i love him very much and just cannot imagine life without him.none of my family members are sopporting me cause they are scared of my father.please heip me in taking the right decision.

2006-08-23 20:05:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my ex boyfreind has just helped me so much that he deseerve a big thank you. he works in for a certain industry which helps people with funds and we have not been talking for close to nine months since our break up. but this morning he phoned me and told me about the grant that availabel to the public and its very difficult to get forms as most people are battling for them but he volunteered to get me some i am so grateful.please help me say thanx

2006-08-23 20:04:21 · 7 answers · asked by santy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

it happened on the faithfull night of my best friends wedding day.i never mean to spoil her day but i guess things got out of hand when everyone started drinking,things was gradually getting out of hand but noone noticed i wish i can turn back the hands of time.he had had intercourse with me four times after the faithful day i wish telling her will not kill her.i dont think am that attrative but every time he looks at me he cant just hold his manhood in peace between his legs.so we end up doing it. could it be a good idea if i just let the bad news lay low and continue with life.

2006-08-23 20:03:13 · 39 answers · asked by shantel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-23 20:03:08 · 17 answers · asked by Remus L 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I even bought her an appetizer.

2006-08-23 19:59:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies,........what are teh soem of teh weirdest promises your men have promised you before....I am just so amused with mine sometimes.....

2006-08-23 19:59:01 · 2 answers · asked by springwhiteorchid 1 in Singles & Dating

I am with broken heart and feeling very difficult to cope up this pain. I am also away from my friends and family, only few acquitances at office. i am alone which made it even worse for me, i become sometime mad and indulge in self pity and sorrow for myself... which i dont want to carry anymore... plz advice wat should i do??

2006-08-23 19:58:54 · 9 answers · asked by lovegotrotten 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do "some" not all guys talk, act, and seem different people around you but then when your not around, are totally different. i think that when I am gone "he" acts really fake and just wants attention. Do you think that I should just stay away from "guys" like this, they are just really annoying me now, and I feel like I am being played.

2006-08-23 19:57:58 · 9 answers · asked by blinkdan04 2 in Friends

so he's not techincally my b/f but we've been together for a year (very complicated situation and i dont want to get into all of it) but anyway, hes turning 21 in september and i dont know what to get him. he spent 50 dollars on me for my b-day but i dont really know if i should spend that much on him. any ideas i would really appreciate it! he's really into grilling, just moved into a new house, likes music - but is really picky in the types of things and i dont want to get him something he wont ever use. ahhh! guys say girls are hard to shop for.

2006-08-23 19:57:31 · 10 answers · asked by lilallyson05 1 in Singles & Dating

if ever you are filipino, can we be friends?email me at jhezeljenny_11@hotmail.com or add me to your YM at tweety_may_jenzeline_jhezel_11@yahoo.com.ages from 18 to 30 yrs. old even if youre half and half

2006-08-23 19:57:14 · 8 answers · asked by jemay 2 in Friends

2006-08-23 19:56:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do people take love as if it is a game and do not take it as one which is a serious affair involving both hearts and one that would last long?

2006-08-23 19:56:37 · 12 answers · asked by Remus L 2 in Singles & Dating

If an engagement ring was taken for an apprasial would the man get upset? Wouldn't curiousity kill you to know how much it is? Not that it should matter... but just out of curiousity. And what if you found out it was CZ (and you were misled to believe it was diamond) would you be upset? Also, apprasial might not just be for curiousity but for insurance purposes. This is not a personal question, I was just curious myself..

2006-08-23 19:56:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've been seeing this guy who apparently used to be a player but nobody knows if he still is. I'm not too sure how he could be cos he's always really busy with work (i actually know this). i sometimes get the feeling that he's fallin for me but i'm not sure if that's part of his game 2 give me that impression or whether it's for real. He minds when i flirt with other guys (even playfully) n he's told me he really would mind if i was seeing sum1 else. I asked him if he was fed up of me and he said never. He's asked if it's ok with me to have sex unprotected (i refused and he respected that) and he also asked if he could put a hickey on me (i refused). These seem like things you wouldn't wanna do wid sum1 ur not serious with but i dunno if he's sayin them cos he means it or cos he's tryin 2fool me in2 thinkin he's serious. he's very respectful of my wishes.calls me 'princess'. we need 2 keep the relationship quiet cos he works where i take courses so he can't pay attention 2 me in public

2006-08-23 19:55:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why people always depends on the money they dnt even help others they full depends on money .why they r so selfish

2006-08-23 19:55:19 · 12 answers · asked by robinhood 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-23 19:54:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been on a break for 2 weeks, we finally get to see each other Friday, and get to spend time together. My question, what can i do....to completely blow him away?

2006-08-23 19:53:57 · 9 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 19:52:43 · 12 answers · asked by Wolfie 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 19:52:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-23 19:51:39 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

I wasn't supposed to find out, but I did. Not sure how I should feel. I think I am okay with having the crush, but I'm not sure about her keeping it from me. What else is she not telling me?

2006-08-23 19:50:23 · 16 answers · asked by mikell 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-23 19:49:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

as u get older age declines . SO 2 years makes no difference. Anyway, my bf is more than 2 years older than me. He is 34. In order for my parents do approve of me dating him he needs to be 2 years younger. He is over my limit of ag by 2 years. He he were 32 it would be easier. So 34 year old and a 32 year is the same thing , right?

2006-08-23 19:48:40 · 17 answers · asked by jazzy girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 19:47:52 · 15 answers · asked by Broc L 1 in Singles & Dating