I've met my boy-friend just for about 13 months.Five months ago, he made a trip to my home country to take me home.During the two weeks, everynight he tried to have sex with me but at that time I was not yet ready.(I was a virgin before having an intimacy relationship with him.) Now I moved here living with him,I don't know whether I am addicted to sex or because I am the NEW in an intimacy relationship, it just turned me on every time he's holding me tight and kissing me in the bed. He, however sometimes just cuddled up to me before sleeping(after working overnight). So, we only have sex when he's day off.(It's about 2 times a week). We both are 40 years old. He got married for 10 years then he was single for 5 years before meeting me. I know he's tired from working overnight but he fell asleep easily once he hit the hay.Don't know if I'm green & didn't do it well even kissing so turn him off.Should I let go because we both felt great for sex and he's gentle (had to wait until I come)
2006-08-23 20:07:31 · 10 answers · asked by NEW 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The frequencies of sex usually reduce when a man is tired. There is nothing wrong on your performance. You may try to start the approach rather than waiting for him to call for it. But be ready to be turned down if he is too tired to accept. You said he gentle to have waited each time for your come shows that he cares for you. Some guys just turn away after ejaculation. You are lucky to have this guy.
2006-08-23 20:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by dolphin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Sweetie, sex anytime of day or night is good and relaxes your tense mood, so have sex as often as you can. There is no fixed limit of having sex at any age, though, newly weds have sex 5-7 times daily, no so newly weds for 2-3 times, once you have a baby, it reduces to once a day and gradually once in two days and so on. But sex at your age is good if it is indulged in atleast twice a week, what do you say ?????
2006-08-23 20:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by piyushjain_2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with u, your just wanting to make up for all the years u went with out sex. Try to catch ur man when he isnt so tired (at a different time of day).
2006-08-23 20:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by Hilllbilly_gal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its really Up to you both My boyfriend is working over night and we have sex at least one time a day
2006-08-23 20:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean.
Yes, you are addicted to sex and because you are 40 years, it's also your peak.
Enjoy while you can.
2006-08-23 20:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by j t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thought that "40 year old virgin" was only a movie!!
2006-08-23 20:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by Wiseguy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
depends on u both my friend.how many time u wants that the main point.when u wake up from sleep,u can try
2006-08-23 20:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by aih 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
about 7 once a night if you or your mate dont feel like it then skip a night
2006-08-23 20:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by Captian JJ-Johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong in having sex as much u like and when u like.
2006-08-23 20:19:41 · answer #9 · answered by rosh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to wait until night...... mornings and afternoons are good too!!!
2006-08-23 20:11:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋