I've been seeing this guy who apparently used to be a player but nobody knows if he still is. I'm not too sure how he could be cos he's always really busy with work (i actually know this). i sometimes get the feeling that he's fallin for me but i'm not sure if that's part of his game 2 give me that impression or whether it's for real. He minds when i flirt with other guys (even playfully) n he's told me he really would mind if i was seeing sum1 else. I asked him if he was fed up of me and he said never. He's asked if it's ok with me to have sex unprotected (i refused and he respected that) and he also asked if he could put a hickey on me (i refused). These seem like things you wouldn't wanna do wid sum1 ur not serious with but i dunno if he's sayin them cos he means it or cos he's tryin 2fool me in2 thinkin he's serious. he's very respectful of my wishes.calls me 'princess'. we need 2 keep the relationship quiet cos he works where i take courses so he can't pay attention 2 me in public
2006-08-23 19:55:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's really sweet with me, he tells me he misses me when we don't see each other for like 2 days, he seems upset when i don't say these things to him. he initiates conversations with me and he calls me. he seemed to get really care when sum guy was constantly harassing me some time back. We've been seeing each other for about 3 months now. Is that even normal relationship time for a player? he turns off the aircon if i'm cold even tho he's hot, he changes the music if he can tell i don't like what's playing..he does a lot of those little considerate things. even tells me he'll take me to places. I'm so suspicious of him though that i don't believe anything he says and i don't trust that what he does is cos he feels that way. I put everything down to him being a player...he denies it constantly n acts hurt when i even insinuate it. Am i ruining things or am i right to be so doubtful of him?
2006-08-23 20:03:01 · update #1
Just be careful , I think he is still a player...
Edit: it almost sounds as you describe somebody I know very well and this one is one of the meanest persons I ever got to know !
Some guys know exactly what you want to hear and then they lie to beat the band, just to get into your pants. All I can say is , be very very careful , I might be wrong, but I don't think so ....
2006-08-23 20:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by willow, the yodakitty from hell 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that if someone was a player, they still are. I think that many people who play girls, make them believe that they are very respectful so that they get your full trust..I should know. I have been there. If he has asked you to have sex with no protection, that should tell you right there that he has a problem. Don't take the chance..Leave him.
2006-08-23 19:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by Justine 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
definite each and each of the time! it really is the superb you may take out all of your frustration (i do not mean in an aggresive way) i basically mean it takes your concepts off it and then you do not ought to do the hugging aspect in a while. even with the very undeniable actuality that i do like that bit aswel!
2016-11-27 02:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by lorain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just want to keep you for his enjoyment only , he us not serious for any responsibility and permanent relation . Do not flow with his chocolate talks ,like calls you princess . you WILL BE HIS KEEP IF YOU DO NOT STOP AND WILL CONTINUE . Better go away right now .
2006-08-23 20:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, its too much trouble. And asking for unprotected sex is just plain out rude!
2006-08-23 19:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not he is playing you, I see a bunch of red flags in that short paragraph. Be careful.
2006-08-23 19:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by GreenManorite 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he seems serious in the first place and when YOU are serious enough to have unprotected sex and then get unexpectedly pregnant... he never wanted your a** in the first place!!! dump him honey!
2006-08-23 20:00:20 · answer #7 · answered by *·.·´¯`·.·* jay *·.·´¯`·.·* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's a player then all he wants is another notch on his bedpost.
2006-08-23 19:58:58 · answer #8 · answered by Tony 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he used to be a player wrong he still is
2006-08-23 19:58:20 · answer #9 · answered by jac 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sound like he just wants you for s e x
2006-08-23 19:57:29 · answer #10 · answered by chapped lips 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋