I wasn't supposed to find out, but I did. Not sure how I should feel. I think I am okay with having the crush, but I'm not sure about her keeping it from me. What else is she not telling me?
2006-08-23 19:50:23 · 16 answers · asked by mikell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She did not act on it. Just thoughts. Strong feelings though.
2006-08-23 19:54:33 · update #1
She did not act on it. Just thoughts. Strong feelings though. The guy does not know.
2006-08-23 20:08:29 · update #2
uuh no it's not ok for your spouse to have another crush. if you remember on your wedding day, u 2 took vows with each other. you are supposed to honor those vows.
2006-08-23 19:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by chapped lips 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you love eachother? its wrong to have a crush on someone else if your married. Theirs nothing sweeter than to see an old couple, so old and bearly walking, to see them still dressed cute and holding hands in public.a couple who grew old together and now laugh at silly things they did for eachother when they were young. cheating is the meanest thing to do. let her know you found out and stop it if you love her. work it out. you should be feeling hurt and deceived. shes probably considering cheating, thats what she's not telling you.
2006-08-23 20:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by girluknow2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thoughts usually leads to action. Usually a person having this kind of thoughts will never change. Be it guy A or guy B. Are you not attractive to her ? Discuss together openly. But if she do it again, then she is not worthy of your attention.
2006-08-23 20:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by dolphin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is not okay. That is your marriage on the line pal. You gotta confront her and get the deals. But don't go too fast about it. If you let this slide, then who knows what could happen.
2006-08-23 19:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by tombomber27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Crushing is one thing, acting on it is another. If it seems innocent enough, don't sweat it. You know your wife the best, and if you should be worried or not.
2006-08-23 19:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Sometimes a crush is innocent. However, she shouldn't act on it in any way.
2006-08-23 19:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by Lady J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not okay.She obviously has given her feelings to someone else besides you. I would move on babe. You can find better than someone that is going to betray you anyway.
2006-08-23 19:55:54 · answer #7 · answered by sugar-n-spice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-23 19:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by PurpleHaze 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In some cultures it's called "shameless". She should suppress such feelings and keep it TOP secret.
2006-08-24 00:33:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would kid her MERCILESSLY about it...
you two NEED to talk this out and move on- a "crush" isn't the same as "doing something"
c'mon- you've never thought another female was "hot?"
2006-08-23 19:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by R J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋