it happened on the faithfull night of my best friends wedding day.i never mean to spoil her day but i guess things got out of hand when everyone started drinking,things was gradually getting out of hand but noone noticed i wish i can turn back the hands of time.he had had intercourse with me four times after the faithful day i wish telling her will not kill her.i dont think am that attrative but every time he looks at me he cant just hold his manhood in peace between his legs.so we end up doing it. could it be a good idea if i just let the bad news lay low and continue with life.
2006-08-23 20:03:13 · 39 answers · asked by shantel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WOAH! I wish I'll never have a friend like you!
Yes, your friend has the right to know what happened. It's better that she knows now than that she finds out later.
Just try to imagine if the situation was happening to you. Wouldn't it be horrible for you to have a friend who can sleep with your husband and that she doesn't have the guts to tell you? Real friends are honest to each other. And if you made a mistake, you have to live with the consequences, including maybe the fact that your friend won't want to talk with you for a while or maybe for the rest of her life.
2006-08-23 20:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by Isabelia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOSH!!! What a best friend!!! Im glad my best friend is a female. no, dont tell her, and STOP doing her husband. and move far far away and lose all contact with her, because her husband will eventually tell her and when he does, she will divorce him, and come after you with a shotgun in one hand and a knife in the other! Some people... and on her wedding night too! Wasnt there ANYONE else in the world that you could do?
You know, I agree with the girl that said something about a threesome. That would be a mans dream, and you would be happy and your friend would too.
2006-08-23 20:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 02:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by lorain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can u call urself her best friend u are not u are a wicth and u are in her life to destroy her. l hope when u tell her wht u did. l wish l was there to help her deal with u .don't call her ur frnd cause u are not. how ca u do such thing to another human being like u . don't forget u are a woman one day someone is going to do the same to you. don't u dare tell her u have already done too much damage .
2006-08-23 20:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by holy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its going to ruin your friendship and the marriage if you tell her. if she finds out, its still going to do both. i think you should stop being such a close friend because really you are not that good of a friend, back away from her and stop messing with her man. that way by the time it all goes down you'll be long out of the picture. you can find someone else. the more you do it with him, the more likely she is to find out. i'd say get out of there now and let what goes down happen between them. i wouldn't tell her but thats just me.
2006-08-23 20:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how cud u ever do this. the fault lies on ur part n her husbands part.. just tell her that the person she has married is fit for nothing. i think its better u n ur friends' husband get married n keep f***ing the whole of ur life. and let ur innocent friend get married to some one whom she can really trust n spend a happy life. i hope atleast for a second time she finds someone good. and better u keep away from her life.
2006-08-23 20:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it happened 4 more times, then you obviously wasnt too sorry for it. And you are not friend, so dont even call yourself one. Plus just because ne cant hold his peace between his legs doesnt mean you cant close yours. He sees that you are easy, so he goes for it.
2006-08-23 20:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by ticklemymarvin2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her it will be worse comming out 5 to 6 years from now! If hes Like that you both could do better hes a cheating Bastard!!!
2006-08-23 20:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her, she deserves to know what a creep her husband is and what a horrible friend you are. Then she can pick up the pieces in her life and move on without either or you.
2006-08-23 20:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's funny that you use the word faithful twice in this story.
You're not much of a friend, are you? How can you even look at her without feeling horrible shame?
2006-08-23 20:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋