2006-08-23 19:54:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
they are not you
2006-08-23 19:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by tamah 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are right,you love your spouse and by that you not only tell them,you are showing them,and it is called taking advantage of a love from a good woman.It's like they know that once they got you where they want you,then things start changing in your relationship.Which is very selfish on your mates part.However,this is definitely something that you need to make your spouse aware of the feelings that is coming across to you from your spouse.Sometimes though,there are a few that don't realize that they are coming across in a manner of disrespect,it's like they think,"well she knows i love her,so i don't have to prove anything." This is where the taking for granted part comes in,so sit your mate down and have a heart to heart and let your spouse know that this issue has not only been bothersome,but hurtful towards you as well.If you don't open the can of worms(sort of speaking)how is your spouse suppose to know your feelings?So make this your top priority and don't put off for tomorrow on what you can do today to try to change the issue along with your feelings towards your spouse as well.I wish you both the best and Good Luck to you!
2006-08-23 20:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by twjp1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my spouce. He's a great man.
I guess some people have this problem though. Try talking to him about it. TELL HIM how you feel. It's the best thing to do. If he doesn't listen, or doesn't care . . . move on because you deserve better. You can't go on like that.
But if you talk to him im sure he or she will understand. I emphasis on talking to him. It always works for me. Communication = A better relationship
Good Luck
- Alexandra
2006-08-23 19:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it always seems that when you want to give love, you need to be loved just the same. And its easy to overlook love when its staring you in the eye.
2006-08-23 20:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by RollMyDice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER love someone else so much that you loose sight of how they treat you. Always ask yourself if he/she is treating you right.
2006-08-23 23:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself whats missing between you two and how it would really help you as well as him , then talk to him about it , see what happens ?
2006-08-23 19:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can u decide he does not,keep yourself in his place and then Analise.if even then u find same thing ,talk to him .i am sure u will find an answer.ALL THE BEST.
2006-08-23 20:01:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
makes you wonder why you married in the first place doesn't it
2006-08-23 19:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
study relationship books, tapes, cds, videos, etc.........get self-esteem training.
2006-08-23 19:56:36 · answer #9 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his girlfriend is younger than you
2006-08-23 19:57:19 · answer #10 · answered by evangelionDude 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him more blowjobs.
2006-08-23 19:56:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋