2006-08-23 20:03:08 · 17 answers · asked by Remus L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I cant think of anything or anybody else besides her and the time I spent with her...how do I get over this???
2006-08-23 20:05:35 · update #1
You could never have been able to express the love that you feel for that person unless you have already experienced it within yourself. So, if you do not know how to love, respect and honor yourself (be true to yourself) you are incapable of doing that for another person...basically, you have no instructions to go by.
If, indeed you know this, then you make an effort to set them free in your mind as well. If you really love that person then, ultimately, you want for them to be happy and, their happiness has nothing to do with you. If you have true love it is selfless. This means that, though you feel loss, you can be happy knowing that, you have given that person the most important gift of all... respect and freedom...regardless of the circumstances.
So, how do you move on? Stay active, stay healthy and, remember that your understanding of love comes from the love and respect you have for yourself. However, when expressing it, it pours out of you and is never meant to serve you but, rather to admonish, uplift and respect others... and, indirectly this benefits you as well. Read some Ethics too, this may help.
2006-08-23 20:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just do. I've been moving on for 5 months now....same thing happened to me. You just have to pick up and keep going, be around friends and family, do nice things for yourself, and the occasional "tear in the beer" doesn't hurt either. It does, and will get better. Best wishes.
2006-08-23 20:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try not to think about them and settle down a little bit before trying somewon new
when you think the time is right then it's probly time to move on
2006-08-23 20:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by Captian JJ-Johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cherishing the memories and not feel dejected. try to understand its a part of life and thank god for the wonderful times you have had with the one you love.
Cheer up dear! Its painful, but life goes on.
2006-08-23 20:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Luck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it one day at a time. You will see that some days are harder than others but each day gets easier. Try and keep your self as busy as you can be. Remember, time heals all wounds.
2006-08-23 20:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not much you can do in the beginning but let life move on for you. Don't worry you'll catch up! Allow yourself time to grieve!
2006-08-23 20:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals boy...learn to love yourself...shes a fool to let go of you! love the life of singlehood, you'll find the right one for you...by the way, vengeance is a sweet revenge...
2006-08-23 20:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by pRim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is only a part of our life if we fail in love we must think that it is our fate and must continue our work as usual,we must not spoil our life because of that girl or boy,we have to think about our parents/gaurdian
2006-08-23 20:07:30 · answer #8 · answered by bagaruthalli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some friends and perhaps move to another place or get another job to meet new ppl?
2006-08-23 20:10:07 · answer #9 · answered by Neutro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I work harder and do better so that someday they can look back when I have long forgotten about them, and wish they never lost me. But then of course, it is too late.
2006-08-23 20:06:18 · answer #10 · answered by mixemup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋