How to cope up when you are alone?

Question

I am with broken heart and feeling very difficult to cope up this pain. I am also away from my friends and family, only few acquitances at office. i am alone which made it even worse for me, i become sometime mad and indulge in self pity and sorrow for myself... which i dont want to carry anymore... plz advice wat should i do??

Answer 1

Been there done that... Girl the best advice I can give you is to really take a step back and look at the big picture. There's lots to learn from what you've been into, and self pity and madness isn't going to do it. I found solace in God, for myself, and made it a point to make more friends, and be a true friend. I didn't even notice that 3 guys were simultaneously into me at the time, but I didn't jump at the chance, because I needed time... Don't move back into the dating pool just yet. Find yourself, gain back your confidence and esteem, and the you'll be glad you did, later... Don't date until you're ready again, but make meaningful friendships... and listen a lot - instead of talking, it will help you realize others have been through what you are going through, and you'll learn a thing or two.
Learn about love and what's worth to love... and make sure you don't forget the lessons you have learned from this one. Plan to make adjustments in the way you communicate with others, or how you respond to others... and pain will fade out... perhaps not tomorrow, or next week, but it will, trust me. Don't focus on the pain, find other things to distract you from it.
Personally changed my daily routine and did things to pamper myself. I made the most friends during my painful 2 years... And for all it's worth, don't feed your ex's ego by letting him know how much you suffer. My ex used to call me to see how I was doing and used to make me cry... Until one day I decided not to ask any more questions and to tell him I moved on, and grew up... and he never called me again. And that was the end of it...
Good luck. I feel for you!

Answer 2

Try to get out there, have some fun! Try to mend that broken heart of yours. Call up your faimly tomarrow and tell that that you want them in your life, and tell them you love them. Call up a few friends, ask them to get together sometime. Don't feel sorrow or pity on yourself. You only get one life, and its best that you live it up to the best of your ability. If you don't want to carry around your self pity and sorrow, talk to someone. Just getting it out, is a good relief, and it feels great to have some listen to what YOU have to say. Cheer Up!!:)

Answer 3

Go out even for only a while. Staying indoor all the time will make you sink in selfpity even more. Get a pet, pet could take your mind off , Pet could make a good companion. Join an activity, take a course, start learn something new, make new friends. Challenge your self. Be good to yourself.:) Get energized by working out, get a new hair do or new clothes. Good luck.

Answer 4

Join a fitness club. You will boost your energy and self-confidence. You could also try signing up for a few classes at your local college. Good luck and don't stress-time heals everything!

Answer 5

Force yourself to go out. Make yourself join a club/volunteer. Pick anything and just go do it. Relationships are like rolling the dice, sometimes you get lucky, but no matter what, if you stop rolling you will only get nothing.

Answer 6

go to the nearest amusement park. or you can also sing to the top of your lungs... or go swimming... do something that you think will make you happy even without anybody's company.

or if you need a company, go out with you officemates.

Answer 7

you need to beleave in yourself, see your heart was broken and you learned they were not your true love , get out with the liven injoy life again

Answer 8

I'd say to just remember how special you are!

You'll find the one for yoe, but don't rush it!

Don't allow the pity-party to start. :)

Answer 9

study self-esteem