the last email she said she love him; he needs to decide; & she will stop at nothing to get what she wants..him. then called me and said, there is something I need to know. (blackmaling my husband) When her husband heard about the affair, he threatened to kill my husband & our kids; including me; so I told him nothing, he believes her; but told me play the game; she wanted me to tell him the truth so that he'd leave her for cheating & mine leave me for putting us in danger; that leaves the doors open for her to make the move; I am currently in couseling w/my husband and pray every night; she feels as if she did nothing wrong; she told everyone in my family I am crazy & made this up; I can't find it in my heart to forgive her, I cut myself off w/my fam? I thought we were best friends; our kids play together & hubby's hang out; my last conv. w/her I really cussed her out, & was ready to hurt her; now I stay in church to keep sane; am I wrong to forgive him and not her; what should I do
2006-08-23
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