Actually,the problem is my friend he loves me ,But he has
Under gone Heart Surgery and Brain Surgery ,I know he loves me very much but i am afraid about the futer he is 28 years old,Please dont say love dosent need anything because it becomes famil after marrage .
Remember he loves me I too but i have not yet said that I love him
2006-08-23 20:50:51 · 21 answers · asked by durga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it a difficult situation i can understand what you are scared of. If you really loves him and dont care about anything in future then its find else beter try to be away.
2006-08-23 20:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love always does something, first just give him some of your precious time, and see how goes. The future with a heart patient, and brain surgery individual may not be all bad, he could turn out to be the best anyone could have considering the response and love that you two make known to each other.]
Gayle
2006-08-24 04:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by gayle j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to look at all options and what responsibilities that will come with this relationship. Just remember if you love each other then nothing should keep you two apart. He still needs that love in his life and shouldn't be penalized because of what he went through. Good Luck!!!!
2006-08-24 03:55:13 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's to be afraid of? That he'll have more health problems? That he won't be around if you have kids? If you love him, then none of these questions should matter much. The fact that you are asking this question means you are not enough in love with him, and you should be honest with him.
2006-08-24 03:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you love him you should go for it. If not try to let him down easy. Just because he has had these surgeries doesn't mean he will not live a full life.
2006-08-24 03:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you be the best friend you can can be for now. There are some really amazing people out there that stick by no matter what. And I take my hat off to them. I can only wonder if you are one of these unique people.
2006-08-24 03:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if he does live...? If you can't change ur love for him, then wht's the difference of rejecting him? You're still gonan love him even if he's dead right? I hope so or else it's better you cut out all ties with him cause u're not even a good friend
2006-08-24 03:53:42 · answer #7 · answered by Neutro 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself if you are able to handle him and all the problems that will come in future if you are with him, If you can, then go ahead abd love him with all your heart and let him live happily with you. If you are not, I feel that its better to reject him than to give him hope that you may spend the rest of his time with him.
2006-08-24 03:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by Hermione Malfoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love him you will stay with him through the hard times. That is what love is. Richer or Poorer, Sickness and in Health
2006-08-24 03:52:50 · answer #9 · answered by Jon H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him you will find a way to make it work. Love ALWAYS finds a way. It's a test. If you don't love him enough to stick it out at least love him enough to let him go...so he can find love.
2006-08-24 03:56:15 · answer #10 · answered by sugar-n-spice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋