I love my b/f very much but im worried about something....theres this thing i kind of want him to do but i dont know b/c im afraid that it will cause problems later in the relationship b/c all of my other ones have ended up like this and we all broke up b/c of things like this and i dont want that to happen between us b/c i really feel like he's "the one"....please help me?
2006-08-23 20:50:05 · 11 answers · asked by hopeless 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Um... well, if you think it will ruin what you have then don't ask. It is difficult to advise when you leave out what it is you want to ask him to do... hmmmm...
2006-08-23 21:02:18 · answer #1 · answered by Whatev' Yo' 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would help if you told us what the "thing" you want him to do is?
Maybe you could bring up the subject of what is is with him without coming out and just asking, see what his reaction is likely to be. Think about if you still want to be with him if he doesnt want to do the "thing". Life, love and relationships are all about comprimise and sacrifices. Think about what went wrong with your last relationships because of this. Good Luck.
If you want more advice, please tell me what the thing is?
2006-08-24 03:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a real answer then you need to say exactly what it is you're looking for. Your question is so vague that it seems to be anything from sleeping with another woman to taking it up the ***. What are you asking?
2006-08-24 04:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by munkees81 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is that thing that you want him to do? If it is really that improtant to you, then tell him and explain to him the significance of that "thing" that he must do. If he really loves you, he will do it.
But if you can't bare thinking what might happen, well maybe you just have to deal with it. If you can survive without that "thing", maybe it's not worth the risk.
2006-08-24 03:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by jen_good girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-28 03:50:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he breaks up w u b/c of the "thing" then he's not the 1....this thing must b very important 2 u....is itDP? I enjoy that! It takes a special kind of guy........
2006-08-24 03:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by lazy_n_spoiled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know it will mess up your relationship dont ask
2006-08-24 03:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by HunnyBunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
study relationship books, cds, etc. and learn how to make it work.
2006-08-24 03:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the thing need more details here
2006-08-24 03:53:10 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop worry and start trusting him
2006-08-24 03:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋