ok my boyfriend came over a few hours ago and I had not seen him in like 2 weeks and he was supposed to spend the night with me but as sonn as he got here he started to touch me and stuf and next thing you know where having sex right but after we were done I sat their really quiet because I was really disappointed the sex was not bad it was just that it was emotionless, no real passion or fourplay it was almost like having sex with a stranger. I guess he sensed something was wrong so he asked me and I told him that I felt really empty and he looked at me and got dressed and said he couldn't stay her and I asked him why and he was like he can't sleep and i asked him to please stay but he left me anyway I felt really bad and now I cant stop crying. was I wrong? should he have left? Was I wrong to say something?
2006-08-23 20:52:47 · 10 answers · asked by ELLE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Me and my boyfriend broke up. I had been cheating on him guess it wasn't meant to be.
2006-08-25 17:51:43 · update #1
you did nothing wrong...stick with it you have a right to be loved. That's the thing about sex with men and women..men do it like any activity they do...women do it mainly for love and acceptance...
2006-08-23 20:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by butterflyfrills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you think you'd feel if you asked him how he felt (just after sex) and he said "I feel empty." All i'm saying is that MAYBE he was expecting to get some positive feedback and was hurt by your answer.
And if the sex was wild but didnt have foreplay....what else would you expect from a guy if he hasn't been getting any for 2 weeks?
2006-08-24 04:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by spindoccc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheap sex you both get, he is not your boyfriend, to him you are a free hooker.you did nothin wrong but you sell yourself short. he is already tired of you, this kind of sex, i call mercy fxxxk, it means he does it because he feel sorry for you as you didnot get any dick for a while.you better dump him now, it will be worst if he dump you..
2006-08-24 04:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes dump him. But you knew the answer weather you want to do it is a whole nother matter.
2006-08-24 03:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by double v 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a good guy than him. mail me i am intrested , i wont leave you after having sex.
2006-08-24 03:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by rosh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hunny they do that sometimes give him space if he stays like that let him go don't pressure him and no you weren't wrong
2006-08-24 03:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by sweetlily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes dump him and move on
2006-08-24 03:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him, now give me the 10 points damnit
2006-08-24 03:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by blacksheep0685 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2006-08-24 03:55:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he already dumped you then forget him.
2006-08-24 03:55:20 · answer #10 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋