I recently started talking to this very attractive girl again, who once had a crush on me. However, she had a boyfriend at the time and I found a girl. Now that I'm single i was considering trying to pick up where we left off. She is still with this guy but i feel that i might have lost a great oppurtunity.
2006-08-23 20:47:14 · 17 answers · asked by Steven B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why not talk to her about your new single status? Let her know that you think she is attractive. Leave it up to her to decide what she wants to do with that information. I'm not saying that you should try to steal her away from her boyfriend because that isn't cool, but on the other hand, life is too short to have regrets about things you wanted but never attempted. Maybe he isn't treating her well and doesn't deserve her anyway. Sometimes people stay in bad relationships because they are afraid to be alone. If she isn't interested (at least at this time) she'll be flattered that you like her and if she is then good for you!
2006-08-23 21:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by Kami 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep this in mind: YOU are not cheating if she decides to go out with you. However, would you want to be with someone who could be so easily persuaded to leave her bf? She could just as easily leave YOU. Bottom line is, let her be.
2006-08-24 03:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not right. And you know it. Put yourself in the other guy's shoes. He doesn't deserve that.
Also, if the girl drops him for you, then there's no guarantee that she won't do the same thing to you, later.
It's wrong. Don't do it.
2006-08-24 03:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's taken. so just let it be. If one day she break up with her bf, then only you can go after her. Don't try to do anything that you do not want others do to u.
2006-08-24 03:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by libby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt go for someone who was already taken, just the same as you wouldn't want anyone hitting on your girlfriend (when you are in a relationship), do unto others as you would have them do unto you! karma baby!
2006-08-24 03:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by andreva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should stay away from this girl whom has a boyfriend and not hurting ur self.... she might just wanna be friends with u..
2006-08-24 03:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by parvathy p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you could loose you friendship too without the right planning!
2006-08-24 03:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, you should leave her alone, how would you feel if you were dating and someone tried to pick up your girlfriend???
2006-08-24 03:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes by all means if you are confident enough to conquer the reward
2006-08-24 03:53:26 · answer #9 · answered by DEAR T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is still with this guy y do u think u have a chance
2006-08-24 03:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by t t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋