i have known this guy for three years.Met him at a conference and we got along very well.We kept in touch.He said he loved me used to call me almost every day and said he wants to marry me.Now i move to his country and he knew it and didn't see me for four months until i confronted him with it.I saw him only 3 or 4 time in 6 months, had some intimate moments together but not too intimate.The first date he took me to a club...and he knows i don't dance.He took me to his place but i didn't let him take me for granted.He called me once a week or 2weeks or even a month.I have now moved and he didn't even say good bye.He called me later and he said he FORGOT.I really need to understand this.I have tried to forget about him but i know it is easier from a distance and i am going back soon.Any ideas
2006-08-23 23:32:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry to say.. and i hope you can hear this..
he was expecting somethin different from you.. he was messing about - he never thought u'd end up in his country.. for all you know he's got a girlfriend/wife or smt.. i dont think you know anything about him, to be honest... except that he "said" he loves you and wants to marry you..
he probably took you out not to be horrible, but i think he didnt really mean any of what he said and doesnt want a relationship.. you should forget about him coz he never remembered you in the first place!!
2006-08-23 23:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you found yourself a bad seed. It will be difficult but you will live. You need to grow some confidence in yourself and move on. You will find someone who appreciates you and will make you happy.
Good luck!
2006-08-24 06:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I think he is a a****e,to treat you like this after he said he loves you,and then forget to said good bye.Now way I will boot him.Good luck my friend.
2006-08-24 06:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by cecilia_kriel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds. Give yourself time to get over the forgetful loser.
2006-08-24 06:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by Dorrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him and have a night on the town.
2006-08-24 06:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by hypnofreeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and find somebody worthy of you
2006-08-24 06:36:33 · answer #6 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to call him till he remember you . you 've to broke up with him , first sign for love is caring ,where is it
now?
2006-08-24 06:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by Tota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone that really cres about you. He doesn't
2006-08-24 06:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by mark g 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's married.....
he didn't take you to " his " place.....he used his buddy's apartment.....hoping to score.......
when he didn't, you were no longer worth the risk
2006-08-24 06:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by Campbell Gramma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really actually.
2006-08-24 06:36:02 · answer #10 · answered by gweneth lynn paltfeir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋