Should I send a message to my ex apologizing for dumping him by text message.A week after we brokeup.I dumped him by a text message after 3 months of dating.I sent him two text message last night but he never responded ,what is your opinion?
2006-08-26 06:20:48 · 25 answers · asked by movin12006 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First you all think I'm low by dumping him by text message but he wasn't a very nice guy when we dated he was all over other girls,the day after we broke up he was allover some other girl,he has been continually metioning the bite marks he got on his neck this past week (not from me cuz I'm not that type of person),talked bad about me to several of our mutual friends,etc.
2006-08-26 06:47:58 · update #1
Well you dated for 3 months, can't you manage a phone call. Dumping by text message is pretty harsh.
2006-08-26 06:22:51 · answer #1 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that sending a message of appology via any messenger will be received as a further insult. Talk to him in person if you must, but remember this in the future when you have another failed relationship. Text messages and e-mails are no way to communicate these types of things!
2006-08-26 06:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow what is wrong with u dont send a test message thats just wrong its mean. its like a guy breaking up with u over the telephone which would be the worst thing he can do. dont apoligize over a stupid text message. dont do text message i dont blame him for not responding plus u cant rely on it wat if he didnt check. u should meet him at a place where u can talk to him. trust me i know this stuff i had soo many girlfriends i have a lot of experience i can practically write a book on relationships. never telephone or notes. trust me on this do it in person only.
2006-08-26 06:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by hotmodelanti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, slap your self for dumping over the text message. He dont want you now. Would you want someone if they did the same. He moved on so should you. Don't drag him along for your own satisfaction. Grow up too! Text messaging is for fun not to monitor your love life!
2006-08-26 06:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by rainymar143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, You really shouldn't have dumped him by text message,(that was so impersonal) If he meant anything to you - you should have talked to him face to face. But now guess what? If you really care about him then you will need to talk to him-face to face- it shows that you care,(you do right?) High tech has its place but not here.Hope you patch things up - if not at least you learned an important life lesson. bye bye...
2006-08-26 06:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you should call him and apologize for not being mature enough to tell him in person that you wanted to break up. how is sending him a message an appropriate way to apologize for not facing him in the first place?
2006-08-26 06:24:08 · answer #6 · answered by Eos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, you should have called him but at this point since you didn't, if it is truly over let it be over. Don't Call and don't continue to try to communicate with him. Let him move on with his life. Although, it sounds like you haven't truly decided and he heard you loud and clear the first time.
2006-08-26 06:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by shar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for him for not answering you,thats a low thing you did dumping him by txt.learn by your mistakes and stop being a coward,go see him face too face and tell him why you broke up with him.i wouldnt be surprised if he shut the door in your face but then you deserve it
2006-08-26 06:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you want to do, date him again or not? I personally wouldn't want to hear from you if you broke up with me thats the cold hard facts, and why do you want to apoligize to him? Just leave the guy alone and get a life with someone else.
2006-08-26 06:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by dalmation60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must have done something horrible for you to break up with him through text messaging. In that case, he deserves no explaination. Don't stress about it.
2006-08-26 06:24:15 · answer #10 · answered by abby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋