Im always talking to great guys, who are cute, charming and just amazing! Or so i think...And then somehow or another it goes all wrong and i end up being hurt and knowing that they can get better. Im now beginning to think i can never find the right guy. I dont know what to do as i just want someone i can be happy with. Is that too much to ask for?
2006-08-26 06:19:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being perfectly honest... I am starting to get VERY confused by the amount of girls sending in questions that "I always get hurt..."
Is it always the guys fault? If so... where do you find these 'guys'?
It is not the end of the the world.... and if the guys you have been seeing have 'ended up hurting you'.... THEN THERE ARE BETTER GUYS OUT THERE!!!!
You can never find Mr. Right just like that. It takes time and patience!!! So keep your chin up and one day... Mr. Right may be walking your direction!!!
I have been single for a while now, and I am patiently waiting for the right girl to come along. I fully believe it will happen...
Remember, there wont be a "perfect match"... you have to make it work!!!
Never give up.... and all the best!!!!
2006-08-26 08:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by The Avenger 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you don't have any problems attracting guys.
What goes wrong ? That's what you need to look at and be aware of.
Once you know that you'll be more confident and maybe you can laugh at your mistakes, laugh at some of the guys you missed out on (because you are glad you did) and be confident that it will work out with somebody special.
Oh and if you're less serious about love you won't scare the guys.
Also find ways to see how YOU are cute charming and amazing !!
Go and have fun and love will truly find you.
2006-08-26 08:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont become a lesbian, but take measures in becomeing the perfect balence of smartarse and sex kitten. before you know it, every tom dick and harry will be trying to 'date' you. Just remember the three date rule and not to be bitter about past relationships that went sour. Nothing makes a bloke run for the hills more then when a girl goes on about past baggage too soon.x
2006-08-26 06:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by subway stu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't be so naiive and take a step back before becoming too involved too quickly... Mr Right is supposed to come to you at the right time and place maybe the time is not right for you.... just go out and have fun with the guys get to know the knobheads from the good uns and who knows mr right might already be in your life you are just yet to dscover it
Happy searching
2006-08-26 06:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by missree 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I thought the same as you do,just a few month ago ,a friend introduce me to a wonderful man and now I am enjoying this relationship..Hold on ,love will find you when you lease expected it .
2006-08-26 06:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by ladybug 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
all guys are nice, and no one would ever be tailor made for you. you change a bit and so does the other person. if u think the perfect guy will fall in your lap, imagine how boring is that. try to work out things with the one who comes closest to your requirements.
2006-08-26 06:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by publically_private 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i had same problem a couple of years back. i was getting messed around. i confided in one of my male friends over a few cans of beer about how i was feeling. that evening i got together with him, the right guy under my nose all that time!!
so maybe he could be someone you never even thought about!
2006-08-26 06:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course it`s not to much to ask for,we all want to love and be loved,but stop looking to hard and you`ll find your Mr right when your least expecting it.
2006-08-26 06:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by onlyme 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should reevaluate who you are attracted to. Maybe you, like most girls are attracted to bad boys hoping they'll change just for you. How about you go out with a nice guy for once, and see how you like it. I bet you they will treat you like you want to be treated. Be more open minded. ~It has worked for me. Now when I relationship doesn't work for me its because I decided it wasn't good for me.
2006-08-26 06:26:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
aww... no. trust me the right guy for you is somewhere in this world. he might be next to u right now or even thousands miles away. juz wait and keeping on waiting, he will be worth it. juz remind urself tht he s also looking for you. so u are not alone in this searching of soulmates.
2006-08-26 06:26:06 · answer #10 · answered by seeker01 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋