im in a shy phase where im having trouble talking to my guy how do i get compfortable w/talking to him!!!
2006-08-26 06:12:48 · 16 answers · asked by cliona 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The more time that you spend with him, the more you will come out of your shell dear....Which one did you pick?
2006-08-26 06:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you known this guy and how long have you been together? there is where you start.if there's not alot of time between the two of you then you might hold the thought he might not understand you as you might expect him to and that can be a problem.sometimes we do that not expecting it yet it does happen from time to time and it can be rather annoying.not knowing what to say to this person or how to say it.if you reallywant this guy to know how you feel then you need to tell him what is on your mind and see what he has to say upon your thoughts though it may be a bit scary just let him know how you feel and you can probally get things going from there. just give him the chance to know what you feel and let nature take it's course. it will probally be the best thing you could do just letting him know what's on your mind and how you feel.
2006-08-26 13:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for a long car ride, let him drive. It's a lot easier to talk in a car or over the phone, guess it's coz you don't have to look at the other person. I use this frequently when I need to talk to kids or teenagers.
Also, talking in bed after s*e*x is usually great.
2006-08-26 13:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with Troy's answer. If you like a guy, waiting for him to ask you out is possibly the worst thing you could do. He may not even know you exist, and won't unless you buck up and make the first move.
2006-08-26 13:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a girl. You don't have to walk up to anyone. If he doesn't ask you out, just find a way to let him know that you like him. Tell a friend to tell him that you mentioned in passing that he was handsome... don't say HOT,... say handsome and nice.
If he doesn't ask you out, you should not worry about it. Seriously, it's the guys job to ask out, it's your job to be the Queen and say yes or to turn him away. You have the power.
2006-08-26 13:18:15 · answer #5 · answered by troyboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just be urself and lok into his eyes and start asking him about how was his day and talk generally about the news and how about the weather tonight and oh i saw a great ad of a movie i'd love to go to watch what do u think and that will amke him start to act and talk straight a head.
2006-08-26 13:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by joe m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time. But be open. I mean usually if he is compatible you will be able to talk to him about anything. Just random questions. If you do feel shy for to long it can come off as your not intrested so try not to be to shy!
Good Luck!
2006-08-26 13:16:04 · answer #7 · answered by rainymar143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Don't try to impress him or anything. The problem is that you think that he is going to see u as immature or insecure but when come out as being just urself, who-you-are.....he appreciates u for that ................then after being shy around him.?? thing of the past!!
have fun
2006-08-26 14:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by darktoner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not get comfortable. You will have to ride the wind and gains speed down the road.
2006-08-26 13:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll become un-shy as you get older.
Being shy in talking with a guy will also come with time.
2006-08-26 13:16:57 · answer #10 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋