My boyfriend lives in NY and I live in Missouri,yeah i know it sounds stupid, but he told me he loves me and i talk to him on the phone every single day. But my problem is that I started school thursday and i don't get to talk to him like at alll b/c he works from 2pm-11pm. What do I do?
2006-08-26 06:09:37 · 24 answers · asked by Sports 4 Life! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how old are you and him? and long distance relationships might not be the best thing try going out with someone from your school.but if you love him too then stay with him, because love will find a way.
2006-08-26 06:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by Kaity A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are meant to be shared. Going out on dates, hanging out together, maybe some kissing...I'm sure you get the point. How can someone have a phone relationship and expect it to work? Your hundreds of miles apart. You have no idea what the other person is doing when they're not on the phone with you. They could have another boy or girl friend with all you know. They could be telling you they love you, thinking it will keep you from cheating while they're out every night with someone else. My suggestion...go back to school, meet some nice guy and have a REAL relationship. One where you can actually feel a pulse and actually spend time together. Don't waste your youth away expecting some day you'll be together. My daughter did that for two years, and missed out on a lot. She missed her prom and several other events because this guy told her if she went he'd break up with her. He was 400 miles away banging anything that walked...or crawled in a drunken stuper for that matter, while she sat by the phone waiting for his call every night. Your young. Enjoy your youth while you can. It will be gone before you know it and this will be one of your big regrets.
2006-08-26 06:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by paesano2578 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got nights and weekends on your cell? Or email him. Some way to let him know you're still his girl. Shoot save up and go see the guy if you're serious about him. Questions? how old or young are u two? is this a strictly long distance online relationship? have you ever seen him in person?etc. Be careful but if it's real and if it's love things will work out. Good luck.
2006-08-26 06:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text message him, while you're in school, text him from your cell phone. While he's at work, text him from your phone while you're home. A lot of times when people are forced to write or type, their true feelings come out and they feel more freely to express them that way than verbally. He may tell you more than the fact that he loves you and you can take advantage of this as well. Try to plan weekend trips to see him and him to come see you. Or if the long distance thing just isn't working out, you may have to move on and just be friends.
2006-08-26 06:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by duvaldiva.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time for a boyfriend that lives close. long distance relationships NEVER EVER work. and if they do its because both have the money and ability to travel, and theyre probably seeing someone on the side. if i were u date some one closer by...
since ur still in school im guessing ur under 18 so u still have PLENNNNNNTYYY of time to find a new love... sorry if its not what u wanted to hear but its the truth..
2006-08-26 06:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by Luis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think you have a problem? i live in india and my boyfriend is in canada. if you think love is all about talking on the phone, grow up. it's the feelings involved which matter more. how you feel for him and vice versa, how you grow as people and what you make out of this relationship. try to take out time for each other, manage your time and make an effort. it's all worthwhile...
2006-08-26 06:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by publically_private 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i had the same problem but i mean um i think you to should just be friends for rite now becaues i think that u livin somewhere eles and u not being able to talk to him is kinda hard ...but if u really love him ...stay wit him ..um how old are you?
2006-08-26 06:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by TriNa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up for 6 months. At the end of that 6 months what sould be done will be obvious.
2006-08-26 06:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by YahooGuru2u 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best idea : Explain him,you will started school,so,you will not have the same time talking with him.Tell him you will email him or talk with him,but not every day. If he really love you,he will understand good. Good luck.
2006-08-26 07:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say let him call u, dont call him. Cause if u do, he might do that again and u will always end up calling him. If he doesnt after a certain date i think u both should go ur separate ways. Cause he didnt bother calling u.
2006-08-26 06:20:17 · answer #10 · answered by chinita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋