Family & Relationships - 26 August 2006

What do I do?? My friend likes the guys i like and dates them when she finds out i like them. I always forgive her. My mom says I shouldnt be her friend but i dont know. She is really weird and always says she is satens daughter. I cant stand that. she is gothic/punk rock. Should I be her friend?, and if not how do i tell her that??? I need help!

2006-08-26 07:01:15 · 7 answers · asked by Britney 1 in Friends

We are paying for the whole thing ourselves and need tips!

2006-08-26 07:00:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-08-26 06:59:24 · 17 answers · asked by redina pinch 1 in Singles & Dating

How soon is too soon?

2006-08-26 06:59:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Right there is this guy that likes me alot but my ex boyfriend likes me to, this guy wants us to be together and show people that we are serious but my ex boyfriend wants us to stay a secret from the world and i want to be with the other guy. But my ex boyfriend says that if i dont pick him to go out with, he'll ruin my life.
what should i do?

2006-08-26 06:59:04 · 18 answers · asked by Jexx87 1 in Friends

2006-08-26 06:58:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Does any of those two really exsist? I really wanna believe it does, but with my past relationship its beginning to fade away. And will love find u or is that a saying people say to shut u up?

2006-08-26 06:58:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so heres wat goin' on.the firt or second week of school there was a guy that looked at me a lot.then like the second week he STOPPED? (well maybe it was cause i didn't pay attention to him)
but then i found out he was from Puerto Rico(like me)then i started to like him but,(oh my god wat have i done)i don't think he wanna hear from me, see me, or even TALK TO ME.
guys please help me out i really like this guy!!

2006-08-26 06:56:48 · 11 answers · asked by The Hot Latin Princess 2 in Singles & Dating

how do i find it?

2006-08-26 06:56:28 · 5 answers · asked by Alp060506 1 in Friends

i have done the occasional porno just between me and my bf, and am comfortable doing it and wouldnt mind people seeing me do my thing! but what is everyones opinion on porn. cheap and tacky or fun and adventurous???????!

2006-08-26 06:56:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-26 06:55:34 · 7 answers · asked by 4ever 1 in Friends

2006-08-26 06:55:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-26 06:54:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend got mad at me Thursday because I went out for coffee at 6:30 in the afternoon with a female friend. He said I was choosing her over him. He got in front of my car and wouldn't let me leave. Then he called me a whore and spit in my face. We have been together for 5 and 1/2 years. We have broken up on numerous occasions, always because of his abusive, controlling behavior. The last time we broke up, I told him I would not see him again. I agreed to give it another shot if he agreed to go to counseling. We have seen the counselor twice. Has anyone had any experiences like this? Did counseling help? Or am I wasting my time? He seems to think his behavior is forgivable. I don't.

2006-08-26 06:54:53 · 14 answers · asked by Christine E 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-26 06:52:06 · 11 answers · asked by cappy61 1 in Singles & Dating

and have everything he owns in his name. house, checking, credit card & etc.. The man don't even have insurance. couldn't bury me tomorrow if he had to. my opinion: NO.

2006-08-26 06:52:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-26 06:51:58 · 16 answers · asked by dubdwells 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-26 06:51:04 · 2 answers · asked by ursref b4u 1 in Singles & Dating

whats ur age range to date someone??
there are people who think dating someone 2 years older is too old....some people even think a year is bad..

so what is your own range?



preferably answers from ppl 18+

2006-08-26 06:50:45 · 25 answers · asked by Moe 2 in Singles & Dating

Alright, I know this person who is now 17 but had it rought growing up. Her dad was an alcoholic and a drugatic and very violent and was in jail more times than anybody could count. Her mother drunk, but not as bad as her dad. She never got to sleep at night because thats when her dad was worse, but yet she would still go to school the next day. He would come in her room in the middle of the night and drag her out of bed with a butcher knife in his hand. He destroyed everything they ever owned until finally they were so poor they didn't even have a pot to crap in. They didn't even have an outhouse....she had to use the bathroom behind her trailor on a pile of cement blocks. They had no electricity or even furniture(because he sold them for dope) and she had to sleep on the floor and cooked what little food they got on this small little kerosine heater that also heated their house. She was so scared growing up that her stomach hurt her alot. She always has had to take care of herself because nobody would do it for her. My question is, why wouldn't somebody help her? Like social services? I didn't know her until recently, but she said that they had been called many times but they never did anything but come talk to her once and a while. Her dad ended up killing himself (overdose) when she was 14, but then her mom started dating a man who had been in jail for rape. One night at around 3 in the morning when her and her mom was taking him home he tried to hit her and she decided she had had enough and got out of the car and walked to her grandmas. She lived with her for about a year until her mom finally came to her senses. She has a good relationship with her mom now, but couldn't something have happened sooner? I just don't understand why she had to go through all of that. What do you think?

2006-08-26 06:50:22 · 7 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Family

I have a child who just turned 18 but i have no contact with her. I pay my child support faithfully but how will i know when to stop paying if the burden of proof ( from the courts perspective) is on me to show whether she's working or going to school but we have no contact?

2006-08-26 06:50:22 · 2 answers · asked by justinbig9 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

And why?

2006-08-26 06:50:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Getting mine done next week and wondered if any guys had it done and if you girls would freak if you man came home with added jewllery in the lower area.

2006-08-26 06:49:35 · 15 answers · asked by Sky 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-26 06:48:32 · 7 answers · asked by ursref b4u 1 in Singles & Dating

i know this really cute guy from my school,and i really like him.i don't know if he likes me or not.what should i do?please helpp.

p.s. i'm kinda shy girl too.

2006-08-26 06:48:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

To put it simple I don't know what to do. All i want is to go away from them and be alone but i can't even find a job maybe its because i'm only 16. How much emotional abuse can one person take for their whole life. I've tried everything but all it leads o is chronic depression. I just want to go add be alone but how can i survive if all i have is an entire familyy that cause more pain than comfort..can u help me maybe with advice or a succes story

2006-08-26 06:47:07 · 14 answers · asked by righteous 2 in Family

First you all think I'm low by dumping him by text message but he wasn't a very nice guy when we dated he was all over other girls,the day after we broke up he was allover some other girl,he has been continually metioning the bite marks he got on his neck this past week (not from me cuz I'm not that type of person),talked bad about me to several of our mutual friends,etc.

2006-08-26 06:46:14 · 11 answers · asked by movin12006 3 in Singles & Dating

I know a woman with 4 daughter, they are grown and 3 of them want nothing to do with her. She treated the baby (Melanie) to designer clothes and private schooling. The other ones got garage sale stuff and public schooling. She never told them she loved them. She never told any of the child except the youngest she loved them. She was extremely physically abusive and mentally abusive to the middle girls. She used the oldest to take care of the other children. She is hateful, manupulative and mean to everyone. She told them she hated them and wished they would die. Even the youngest one, don't like to be around her. Out of the 2 middle girls, one is a alcholic and drug user, the other one has mental breakdowns. No knows the abuse they went through like the eldest one. She lived her life taking and trying to protect them from her. Even as adults they still crave a mother. I hate people saying they should see her, that is their Mother. I think they are better staying away.

2006-08-26 06:46:05 · 5 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Family

Ok I have a boyfriend that works over the road and is gone 95% of every month. When he is home he spends more time with his friends and mom. I just got out of a 6 yr marriage 2 years ago due to him cheating etc.. Does anyone think my new guy could be doing the same? No evidence just worried of that? Well as I said he never stays home with me, I have 2 boys (6 and 8) from my marriage and we have a 4 month old daughter together. This is his first child and he is 32 so I wonder if he is scared of the fact that he is a parent now and that he wont do a good job at it? He does a great job by the way. Ok so I have a friend that I talk to online and I know him personally so he is not just some guy on the net. Well we have been talking intimately for about a month or so and we have discussed the possibility of him coming to my house to visit and hang out etc while my guy is on the road. I refuse to let my children see him here so it would be while they are at their dads or grandmas? Isitbad?

2006-08-26 06:46:05 · 8 answers · asked by harleyt23us 2 in Singles & Dating

toned thin chicks or curvy babes

2006-08-26 06:45:37 · 6 answers · asked by Maria N 2 in Singles & Dating