Right there is this guy that likes me alot but my ex boyfriend likes me to, this guy wants us to be together and show people that we are serious but my ex boyfriend wants us to stay a secret from the world and i want to be with the other guy. But my ex boyfriend says that if i dont pick him to go out with, he'll ruin my life.
what should i do?
2006-08-26 06:59:04 · 18 answers · asked by Jexx87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
U do what ur heart tells u. U said u wanna be with the other guy, then be with the other guy. Also dont go back with ur ex, what happened between u guys the first time round? think about that. And with the whole ruin ur life thing, tell him to go screw himself and he hasnt got any way of doing that. And if he says he does, then just play the game. Tell him u can do the same. Or say u can but u dont wanna stoop down to his level, which is pathetic, selfless, desperate and dissapointing.
2006-08-26 07:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don`t let your ex blackmail you into getting back with you. Why did you split from him in the first place? Why does he want to keep your relationship a secret? Sounds like a spoilt child that wants to have everything and share nothing to me.
The other guy sounds like the genuine thing, he`s not afraid to be seen with you, wants everyone to know about it. Pick the other guy, whats your ex gonna do? You could always be a bit spiteful and start rumours about him if he starts trouble!
2006-08-26 07:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex is a bully tell him to feck off or your gona tell your bros,dad or uncles on him as he is a bully that should scare him make sure your new guy knows whats going on so your ex cant be a nasty piece of work and tell him i thought only women could be bi**hes but that guy takes the biscuit stand up to him dont be a door mat
2006-08-26 07:20:45 · answer #3 · answered by angel 36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every body has an ex for a reason. you'd be daft to go back to him, especially as he wants to ruin your life. he's an insecure man and if you go back because of the blackmail, he'll know he can get away with treating you badly.
2006-08-26 07:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your ex really loves you or has an ounce of respect for you, he wouldn't be giving you ultimatums like that. do what you feel is right- is your life. don't let your ex bully you- he'll keep doing it forever and make your life a misery.
2006-08-26 10:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with the outher guy your ex is only using blackmail so u will do wot he wonts you to do and there must be a reason y he is your ex stay well clear from him
2006-08-26 07:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be with the other guy not ur ex...if he trys to ruin ur life then kick him in the nuts or you could always borrow my german shepard to set on him lol no seriously follow ur heart and everything will work out in the end woooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!
2006-08-26 22:13:32 · answer #7 · answered by pritzy-fairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should tell theEX to get lost and go with this other guy if you like him.............
Just tell your ex its over and its time you both moved on
2006-08-29 06:37:55 · answer #8 · answered by mr_scotsguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your choosing someone to date you shouldn't ask others for help, you should choose for yourself because deep inside your body and soul is telling you which is the right thing to do. If you don't have any feelings for either one then choose no one, but please note no one worth dating would ever threaten your life just to get you scared into choosing them.
2006-08-26 07:14:51 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Lips of Morphine ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart dont let your ex bully you! after all there is obviously a reason why he is your ex!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-26 07:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by melanie g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋