Ok I have a boyfriend that works over the road and is gone 95% of every month. When he is home he spends more time with his friends and mom. I just got out of a 6 yr marriage 2 years ago due to him cheating etc.. Does anyone think my new guy could be doing the same? No evidence just worried of that? Well as I said he never stays home with me, I have 2 boys (6 and 8) from my marriage and we have a 4 month old daughter together. This is his first child and he is 32 so I wonder if he is scared of the fact that he is a parent now and that he wont do a good job at it? He does a great job by the way. Ok so I have a friend that I talk to online and I know him personally so he is not just some guy on the net. Well we have been talking intimately for about a month or so and we have discussed the possibility of him coming to my house to visit and hang out etc while my guy is on the road. I refuse to let my children see him here so it would be while they are at their dads or grandmas? Isitbad?
2006-08-26 06:46:05 · 8 answers · asked by harleyt23us 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is this wrong? not just morally but otherwise? I want my children to be safe from emotional attachment etc unless we end up together? I also refuse to let him stay overnite at my house etc with my kids here. My daughter is not a problem due to her age but as she gets older it will be and he knows I refuse to get a sitter just so we can hang out etc. I just need some advice as I have never done this and not sure what to think about the situation?I am 28 and the friend is 35? Does age have anything to do with affairs etc? Who is more likely to have an affair the younger or the older generations?Any help is greatly appreciated!!!
2006-08-26 06:50:41 · update #1
I AM NOT MARRIED JUST GOT OUT OF A MARRIAGE 2 YRS AGO OK!!!!!!!
2006-08-26 06:52:04 · update #2
In a way yes but at the same time everyone deserves to be happy. So i say go for it.
2006-08-26 06:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by leespitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that before you let this other guy "friend" come to you house, or even go see him, you need to leave the one that you have. If you were cheated on, you know how that makes you feel, and it is not a good feeling, and you should not do that to your boyfriend while he is out trying to make a living to support you and your other two children. Talking to this guy on the net is one thing, although, it should never get intimate, (that is still a form of cheating), just talking and being friends is one thing. I wish you luck, and that you take the feelings of your boyfriend into mind with what ever you do
2006-08-26 13:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't no for sure if he is cheating. but u are and when i say that u have been talking to some one intimately why he is gone he do no about that and if u have him come over i think that will be a BIG MISTAKE u no how it feel to be cheated on it happen to u . maybe u and your guy need to talk no fussing talk communication is the key to any relationship u seem like u love him maybe u need to think about your feelings for him do u really want this to work if not end it before u start with someone else that will save a lot of heartache.
2006-08-26 13:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by heyu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you think the guy you are seeing and is on theroad for 95 % of the time deserves to be treated like you where treated in yuor marriage.
I say you need ot rethink this relationship wit hthe guy on the road. Sounds like he is not teruly in your life and you make him sound like he is NEVER THERE so why are you eve nworried about him in the first place.Second - if you UNDERSTAND the feeling of being cheated on they wh yare you so EAGER ot cheat on this guy with your friend ( wink wink ) .
Sounds like you are jus tplaying games and need ot think WHAT you want then decide who to do it with.
2006-08-26 13:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by Glenn T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before answering your question u should ask yourself this question first do u still love your bf. if yes than i suggest you should think about what u are doing before it's too late. but if u don;t love him anymore than break up with him first than move on to this other man.....if u want your bf to spend more time with him just ask him... i'm sure he will once u let him know.
2006-08-26 13:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by scropie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your married stop that right now before you regret it. Tell your husband that you miss him and you want him to spend more time at home with you and your kids. I bet he will.
2006-08-26 13:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you trust him? if not, no! you know him well and have confidence and security in him? if not, no! (: trust, respect, two important things in a relationship..
2006-08-26 14:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by vicks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-26 13:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋