Family & Relationships - 25 August 2006

she has not done it but says she will not wait another year for us to be together. we have courted now for 8 years and says to wait it will happen for us. i really love this women. im i being played for a fool here i am single and a widow and we have been together even when my wife was a live. i fell in love with this women and she lives 700 miles from me.should i dump her i have tryed in the past to do so but i still keep hoping it will work one day. we have fought on here about her getting the divorce and serve papers on him and get him out of there she wants to do this but keeps telling me she don't have the money he is on social security and she works every day. but she says she is a scared of him because he does get mean.but yet she keeps telling me she will do it but she don't. but keeps saying she love me and don't love him and she says they do not have any sex together for the last 4 years. what do you think will this happen or not. i keep hoping it will one day soon.

2006-08-25 04:25:07 · 17 answers · asked by woodburner_229 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It has been years. She used to, but not any more. How can I get her to give me head again? I need some words and terms, because i'm sure she isn't going to like me using words like "B*** Job" and "head" or "s**k me". I may need to resort to crying or begging - LOL. I'm sure I will need to promise not to "go too far" although she used to do that also. I have always pleased her orally.

2006-08-25 04:24:58 · 27 answers · asked by Midnight_Rider 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to find a person that can be honest, I've been married 20 yrs and I catch my wife in lies, so are there any honest people really. I do my best to never stray from the truth even those little lies hurt you so why can't everyone just start telling the truth

2006-08-25 04:24:37 · 8 answers · asked by big4jim400 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-25 04:23:33 · 25 answers · asked by jgive_ca 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-25 04:23:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should i say something to this guy at my gym that stares at me he is so fine he stares and when i look bac at him he shys away and then when our eyes meet he looks away.. my mom notices it too she says im a girl so hes going to look i dont want to date him cuz im not allowed yet but i could sneak if i wanted but just want to know should i make the first move or what

2006-08-25 04:23:10 · 13 answers · asked by Tired_of _the_games 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a married male and ever since I can remember I've had a crush on this girl especially on her feet. I have a strong foot fetish as it is, however, her feet are the ones I crave most! My wife knows of my fetish for feet but not of my cravings for K's feet. K does'nt know i have a fetish for her feet, I've given her numerous foot rubs over the years both at her request and me doing them voluntarily. She said her husband won't rub her feet and that she likes my foot massages. When I'm not rubbing her feet I'm constantly finding ways to look at them w/o being noticed- She ia alway flexing,wiggling, and spreading her toes. Of all the feet i've seen hers are the best. Do you think she is aware of my fetish by doing these little trick with her feet? I've told her that if there was such a thing as pretty feet-she would be the winner- and she realizes that she has pretty feet and every once in while will ask me what i think of her pedicure. I can't stop thinkin of her feet-They control me!

2006-08-25 04:22:35 · 8 answers · asked by smoothoperator429 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in this great relationship with a guy but my family doesnt "agree" with his skin color. We both love each other very much and are commited but this tension between my family and I is putting a strain on everything. He is willing to deal with whatever comes his way from my family and he says he loves me and is not afraid because he wants to be with me for the rest of his life. However I dont want him to have to go through that kind of harassment. I am not afraid but I am afraid for him and his well being.

My step-father has threatened his life. I dont know what to do. please someone. HELP!!!

2006-08-25 04:22:17 · 19 answers · asked by Reesa 1 in Singles & Dating

or when do you orgasm faster/easier during intercourse or masturbation

2006-08-25 04:21:49 · 15 answers · asked by hieandbye 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone have suggestions for summer wedding colors? I am getting married in July of 2007 and am having trouble picking colors. I was thinking of pink and a chocolate brown, but would that be too dark for summer? Or a bright pink and sage green. Any ideas would be great!! Thanks!

2006-08-25 04:21:44 · 18 answers · asked by knmasek 1 in Weddings

Well theres this girl i love. And im not using the word "love" randomly. it really is love. and More. She told me that she liked me earlier this year...we kinda had a fight...but then after that, we were back as a couple and she told me again that she really liked me. that it would work.
Now things went really well for a while after that, then suddenly, she's back to her, this won't work idea. And well, she makes up reasons. Not the first time though. But then they change all the time, from wanting independence, to we don't understand each other, to she doesn't want to hurt me anymore, to she's been hurt before. now she's ignoring me but says on her blog she misses our friendship and she's falling now that we're strangers
What should i do? I think she's afraid of something. I really don't know what cause she won't dare to open up to me. Should i ask her what she's afraid of?
How do i show her that im willing to take this all the way. to instill some sense of safety & love with her

2006-08-25 04:21:37 · 10 answers · asked by izt_is 1 in Singles & Dating

So 7 of my closest friends will be going to Vegas to celebrate a bachelorette party (that I organized) and I don’t get to go because my husband who is usually cool about me hanging with the girls thought this was over the limit. He is taking me on vacation instead and I’m happy with that..Since in the back of my mind, I know the Vegas trip would have been over the top and caused problems. BUT a little part of me feels like I’m missing out on something. These girls were my sorority sisters and we have done everything together for the past 6 years. I feel that they may start considering me the boring married girl now. Somewhat of an outcast. Does this eventually happen after getting married? Should just accept it?

2006-08-25 04:21:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i FINALLY got a bf,but he lives far away.im in Kentucky,and hes in Florida.We talk on the phone,email eachother,and have fun,but i feel that i need something physical.i cant find a guy near me,so what do i do?

2006-08-25 04:21:26 · 11 answers · asked by pro_heartbreaker_69 2 in Singles & Dating

What is a fool proof line for getting a kiss from a girl?

2006-08-25 04:20:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband married his ex-wife becuase she threatened to prevent him from seeing his son. The son passed away as a baby, and basically the woman trapped him with another kid. Of course, she lives in another country, and refused to move here with him at any point, so they never lived together. She uses the kid against him, to force money out of him. She only lets the child speak to him when she hears about money. My hubby and I were just friends when I saw her plot, and tried to show him what I saw. She refuses to allow the child to visit him, and whenever she called to speak to him, she called him all kinds of bad names, including worthless, especially if he told her she'd have to wait. He couldn't have a decent conversation with her, even when it was about the child. So my husband stopped calling ever cause he cannot call to speak to his child without the ex-wife or the ex-wife's mother demanding money. I have now stepped in as the middle person, but I want a solution. Can't stand her

2006-08-25 04:20:20 · 10 answers · asked by Blessed B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I found out my husband lied about how many times he had been married before me, he also lied about his daughter having an illness she does not have and told me he had adopted 2 children with one of his wives and they are really his, not adopted. He is now telling me what a piece of garbage I am for digging into his past when it has no relevance to our relationship.
Do you think I should have left it alone?

2006-08-25 04:20:00 · 21 answers · asked by Andrea T 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-25 04:19:29 · 16 answers · asked by Ocean 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-25 04:18:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am pretty sure what this girl did was a hint, but I am wondering what I missed. She gets on a computer while at my family's house, and she begins looking up "hot" guys on MySpace. Well, being bored at the notion, I let her do her thing. Instead, I went and looked at my college yearbook which had come in the mail that day. I made a comment like "have fun doing that" before I did this. After a while, she stopped looking I guess, and I found her coming over to me. She said, "Don't worry; I won't look!" Why the hell should I care if she looked? I wasn't looking at anything bad. I don't understand what she meant by these actions. Any help?

2006-08-25 04:18:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-25 04:18:23 · 17 answers · asked by LaShawn S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I always have to wait for my boy to make the move, even though I want to. Its something abou him and my fear of being rejected that holds me back. I know he'll go for whatever I want, I just hesitate and eventually don't do anything when I really want to!!

What can I do to get over my fear and make a move with him? We've been dating over a month and things are GREAT, but I am still backing off when I shouldn't!!

2006-08-25 04:17:37 · 7 answers · asked by C-BIZZLE 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex husband only paid me one week of child support in the last year, and he owes me about 4000 dollars in back child support. I have sole custody of my son and I was wondering do I have to let him visit my son if he has not paid me? I actually don't want him to see him at all because he is such a dead beat. Is that possible>?

2006-08-25 04:17:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-25 04:17:23 · 18 answers · asked by eeyore38375 1 in Singles & Dating

im 6 months pregnant me and the baby father does not talk he wants nothing to do with me cause when we first broke up i destroyed some of his things

then i went back 2 months later witha friend and broke in his house and took a l,ot out. He did some things to me I didn't like during the course of our relationship. i tried to call him and tell him i want to talk but he brushes me off . I really want him to be in this childs life and be there in delivery room (if that part happen that would be a dream) tell me how do i make things right. Im a strong blk woman some say leave him alone and just file child support.
then I don't want to try to beg or make things better that will make me seem weak and i don't want that so please you guys i need as much advice as i can get thanks/!
oh ps he does have 6 other kids

2006-08-25 04:16:37 · 9 answers · asked by africacarey 2 in Singles & Dating

I am intelligent, well-educated and a good person. I am not a smiley person by any means. Just because I don't smile it doesn't neccesarily mean that I am sad. It is just my natural deameanor.

2006-08-25 04:15:35 · 25 answers · asked by Contessa 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-25 04:15:34 · 9 answers · asked by steelerguy92868 2 in Singles & Dating

hey dude wat exactly are u suppose to do in this compitation called JAM ? Plz help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
Ok I so joblessly, stupidly gave my name to participate in this compitition as a part of a dare and to your surprise i have no idea about this comp. PLz help me !! Wat is this compitition about!!! I have it tommorow!!!!!!!

2006-08-25 04:15:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-25 04:14:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 45, my boyfriend is 32. He will spend every waking moment playing video and computer games. If he isn't working, he will spend from morning till night on the computer playing games (12+ hours). If I ask him to help around the house, he never does it. I will go to work, and ask him to do a few reasonable chores while I'm gone. When I come home, nothing is done and he is playing games. I've tried to have serious talks with him. I am at my wits end. I am becoming resentful.

2006-08-25 04:13:36 · 14 answers · asked by expecting_1_31_2007 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-25 04:12:55 · 36 answers · asked by Crooks Gap 5 in Family