if the guy had a drink & he told me he loves me, should i believe him? what's up w/ that?

Question

& is it proper for me to ask him about it when his sober?

no sex involve guys.....i should say his very shy.

Answer 1

depends on how drunk, because in some level, the sensitivity of a guy shows when they are drunk. i see men crying when drinking because there they let down their guard down and show some real side or what they truly feel. no matter how difficult it is to open up. other guys when over drunk loves every woman. sad to say that guys forget what they say when they woke up in the morning :( if this guy still cant tell you in person his feelings, then find a real man who can.

Answer 2

If he was drunk... had lots of booze in his system, then it was his way of telling you that he wanted to have sex with you... but if he is maybe a shy person and he does not express his feelings easily, it could be that with a couple of drinks (still sober) he was less shy to tell you how he emotionally feels towards you.

Answer 3

I don't necessarily agree with the others who say "It's the booze" or "He just wants sex". If he is really shy, & he only had one drink, then it may have been enough to reduce his fears, & have him express how he really feels toward you.
It would not only be proper, it would be a great idea for you to talk with him when he isn't under the influence. It may be something he is secretly hoping for.

Answer 4

I, too, always hear "that's just the booze talking". But, when I've had too much, it works like truth serum on me. Stuff comes out that I don't even want to say. I tell people what they ask me even if I didn't want to. I feel like your inhibitions are decreased and out comes the truth.

Of course, on the other hand, I've promised to do stuff that I would never have promised if I hadn't been drinking, too. So, I'm confused.

Answer 5

There is a difference between A drink and 15 drinks. If he was sober, he MIGHT mean it. But you never know. Us men can be rather devious. Love often means we wanna get in ur britches.

Answer 6

i think he is telling the truth cuz the guy had a drink and he dont know what he is saying or whether he should say or not . i think it was a secret and after drinking he cant stop himself and he let you know about his feelings. i dont know whether i m right or wrong but i just want to say that he may be saying true or he is lieing so dont make your mind right now. i wish you a best of luck nd i wish that that guy is telling you the truth.

Answer 7

They say that alcohol only loosens up your tongue and that you wouldn't do or say anything that you hadn't been thinking about. he probably has feeling for you and the alcohol loosened him up enough to say what he felt. He had a shot of confidence.
The real question is -- how do you feel about him? Did you want to hear those words from him? If so, then, you should talk to him. If not, let it go!

Answer 8

Don't believe him 100%. He may have feelings for you, but wait to hear it from him when he hasn't been drinking. And that goes for any 'serious' conversation, don't have them when you're drinking, and don't let other people try to have a serious conversation with you when they've been drinking. It's never a good situation.

Answer 9

well he might have wanted to tell you when he was sober but he was afraid you didnt feel the same but once he was drunk he was able to with out fear. hold him close and tell him you love him the worse thing he does is freak out then you can break up and its over better then sitting their worried about what itmeans.

Answer 10

Ask him about it sober. Many people wouldn't say such a thing unless they really meant it.