should i say something to this guy at my gym that stares at me he is so fine he stares and when i look bac at him he shys away and then when our eyes meet he looks away.. my mom notices it too she says im a girl so hes going to look i dont want to date him cuz im not allowed yet but i could sneak if i wanted but just want to know should i make the first move or what
2006-08-25 04:23:10 · 13 answers · asked by Tired_of _the_games 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-25 04:23:27 · update #1
IM 15 HES ABOUT 16
2006-08-25 04:23:43 · update #2
He's probably not making the first move because it's obvious you're too young to date. After all, you are going to the gym with YOUR MOTHER!! Once you get old enough to date (as it is NEVER a good idea to sneak around), then you won't have to worry about making the first move, he will. This guy is obviously older than you, knows that you're jail bait, and it just trying to do the right thing..which is to ignore you. Don't confront him or make any move as you are putting not only yourself but him in a dangerous position..it's called Statutory Rape!
2006-08-25 04:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by tames_fish 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nah - let that up to him. To help along though - next time you catch him staring - smile at him - this should encourage him. However if you're not really allowed date just yet - maybe you should hold off for a year or two - then you wont have to be sneaking around behind your mums back!
2006-08-25 11:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmmmm
well
he makes the first move
if you do
you make yourself like him , you dont have the add of breaking a messed up relationship
and if hes shying away
then its actually good for you
if hes soo shy
he likes you
I've done tht
it works
so
let him realize it
and let him like you
and ask you out
omfg
you cant date yet?
ouch
jeez Im 13
lolz
2006-08-25 11:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by beezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom's right. your the girl so let him make the first move, well, I mean, the first "risky move". I understand your situation and I dont want you to blame yourself in the future when nothing happens to that romance.what I could suggest is that you could return his glances with smiles and waves. that way he'll feel welcome and make the next move".But if he does nothing in return, stop limiting your attention just for that guy.If he's too coward just to go up to you and introduce himself, what more when you two became more than "gymmates"?
2006-08-25 11:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by kathyG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Staring at girls at the gym doesn't mean much....but he will talk to you if you make first move and who knows what could happen??
2006-08-25 11:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by hawksfan17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh, puppy love. If you want to make the first move, do it. Obviously he's just going to wait around for you.
2006-08-25 11:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mos def make the first move! If he is always staring, and you try and talk to him, he wont deny you.....he is probably trying to gather the courage to talk to you as we speak!
2006-08-25 11:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong in taking the move.. dynamics are changing fast...
2006-08-25 11:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well at least talk to the guy. hes obviously interested in what he sees. so get to know him and see where it goes from there.
2006-08-25 11:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by Jmkisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to sneak off then sneak off with him,!! if you dont want to date him then dont,! next time you go to the gym just dont look at him,!!! if your ,,not interested,!! i think you are bul sh t ing!!!
2006-08-25 11:36:37 · answer #10 · answered by dennis b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋