We work different shifts so we can switch babysitting (by his choice because he wants a lot of material things), and because his mother, who has babysat her entire adult life decided she would only help her daughters out with babysitting. It is expensive, when we priced it, it would have been over $1000 a month (2 kids), but what's the point in being married when we're really not?? We see each other in passing & when we are home together, he's on the computer or watching TV. We've NEVER had a meal together as a family at the dinner table. I've voiced my concerns that I don't feel like it's a marriage, nothing changes. Should I just leave?? He refuses to go to counseling, by the way.
2007-10-29
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