He's 55 (really) and has had I lost count how many strokes. We always have been close as in talked often, but didn't see each other often, and we live in the same city. Now it's like I allot him a certain amount of time, and I feel guilty when I leave. I know that he understands that I have my own life, work, habits, family and all, but I still feel like I'm just giving him his 2 hours every so often, and then I don't go at all to avoid that feeling, and it cycles from there. Last time I saw him he said (jokingly) "What are you doing here? It isn't a holiday or anything." I love my dad very much, and want to see him more, but go or not, there's either of two different kinds of guilt feelings attached to it.
Thanks all!
2007-10-07
18:14:00
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