This may seem daft, but I wish my husband would notice me like he used too. I know that after a few years the passion can subside, but I do miss it.
He just seems utterly blind to me as a sexual woman with needs. We only make love once or twice a month. We have been together 5 years.
Other men notice me, and it gives me a buzz, but I wish my husband would look at me in the same way! A gorgeous guy at work has made it clear he is attracted to me and it makes me feel warm and giddy, like my husband used too. I would not do anything, but I fear that the lack of love and attention from my husband will one day drive me into someone elses arms.
I am open about how I feel, but I dont think he see's the problem. I am currently loosing weight to regain my self confidence, but have not told him, I want to see if he starts to notice me again.
Ladies, I know alot of you out there have felt this way at some point during your married lives. Do you have any advice for me?
Many Thanks
2007-06-08
03:51:13
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