my daughter is shorter than the girls of her ages.how can I help her?

Question

I am worry about it. my dayghter is lovely girl and donnot like sleeping.sleeping time is also shorter than that of other children.he wiil be 3 years old,but only 90cm tall.

Answer 1

Seems to me you're the one having the problem. Does it bother your daughter? Has she started to notice the difference in height? Are you making her aware. Leave her alone. First, how tall are you and her father? My sons were extremely shorter than all their friends while growing up. One day the Doctor said it out loud in front of my 6 year old son. The Dr looked at me and said he is very short for his age. I said to the Dr "you have a poor bed side manner". We changed Doctors. Both my sons are now 5'11" tall. I'm only 5'9". We are all different. Make her feel good not bad.

Answer 2

Thanks for the somewhat confusing question. Is this about sleeping or your 3 year old having a height issue.

Look, I had 2 younger brothers and when I became a certain age I was able to stay up a little later then them.
You sound like your having the problem with the height of your 3 year old, I'm pretty sure a three year old doesn't care.

Yeah know I have know idea how you raise your children but it seems as though alot of parents now a days need to be reminded about something...you are the parent, they are the child, children can't raise themselves. they are the so-called adults raising a person that can't do it themselves, thats ignorant to life.... you brought this person into the world you had 9 months to get prepared for there arrival this human being that you gave life to is your responsibility to mold and to teach and to do the best you possibly can to make this person a well adjusted individual....thats your job as a parent, period.

I was chanel checking the other day. I can't stand Jerry Springer, or Mory Povitch? Too much stupidity for me thank you. Anyway I stopped on Mory one day last week for about 5 minutes. They were having a show about children, around the ages of 2 or so and that they were grossly overweight. They were showing the mother of this one 2 year old 60 or more pound child and she's crying saying if he doesn't get what he wants he has a fit, cries and cries, screams, throws a tantrem....and I can't stand to see him do that so I give in. Just before I turned the chanel I yelled at the woman who was letting her 2 year old child raise "her" and I proceeded to yell at her calling her an ignorant lazy son of a b#tch. I just couldn't believe it, and ya know while I'm writing this this occured to me. The people that go on these types of talk shows must watch them themselves........You'd think Ya. Ok whats the point of having these types of shows in the first place. Well besides them being entertaining to some people, they are suppose to be informative, so you can possibly learn something from others mistakes. Maybe that's asking too much from some people, I don't know, I sure don't get it or the people on them, sorry.

What I totally don't understand even more so is why these children that are morbidly overweight aren't taken away from these lazy a#s parents (and I say lazy because it is far more easier to give in then to stand up to your child) but why aren't these parents being charged with child abuse, they are killing there children, they are knowingly making them unhealthy now and quit possibly in there future.

So why did I bring this all up regarding this little bitey question you asked in her.............because it sounds as though your forgetting your place in all this parent child thing.
Don't slack on raising your children, its hard friggin work, but having children is a responsibility and the parent or parents need to step up to the plate, not only step up to it, but constantly be on it reinforcing and guiding there child or children.
Too bad more women wouldn't think more about that responsibility part alot more before getting themselves pregnant in the first place.
You have to get your children to realize at a very young age that you are the parent, what you say goes and if they don't go by the rules of whats right and wrong there will be consequences. Now there is one really important thing that I think is sometimes forgotten when your a parent and I know at times it can be very hard to sit and explain to get a child to understand why sometimes, but don't just order them around and give this answer back....because I'm your mother that's why, or this one, because I said so, explain why, they still might not understand it no matter how many ways you explain it to em, but eventually they will. That's why they say raising children is the hardest job in the world.....it is and it can just about make you crazy at times.....and the hard and crazy part come from doing the best you can with your childeren, not caving in or giving in. Be the adult!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

well first off get her a bone growth test (it is a test that will determine whether she is dwarf or not and only involves an xray of the wrist)
you can get her growth horomones if you wish but wait to make sure she doesnt spurt and get average height first

however
my daughter is also tiny but she is not dwarf
she doesnt mind and really doesnt care. she's learned to cope well and plays wonderfully with other children bigger than her (she chases them around pretending to be whatever animal she saw last)


also i am 25 and almost little person size and i enjoy it

tell your daughter that small people can get places no one else can and she can be helpful in ways no one else can
she is special because she is small

also if you cant get to something because it's in a tight corner or even if you can get something that she can reach let her get it (making her feel useful like she can do things that mommy cant)

Answer 4

nothing you can do. she will only be as tall as she will be. love her, let her k now she is special.

Answer 5

Make her drink more milk.