I have been married 13 years, to the love of my life. We have a wonderful affectionate caring trusting & loving relationship. The only downside has been that we have not had sex for 7 years. We have no children, so I have not gained weight and got baggy and saggy. I am pretty, confident, hardworking, I am there for my family and his. It started off more less as soon as the ring was on my finger. He didn't initiate sex often, so I would. He rejected me many times, saying he was too tired, not in the mood, depressed etc. I believed him. We tried to have sex, or at least just oral sex but he could not maintain an erection. He kept telling me it wasn't me, it was him. I thought he had a erection problem and didn't want to compound the problem, so I gave him some space. Now he has told me I don't turn him on & that is why we haven't sex. He partially wants to stay with me because he loves me our life together etc but another part of him thinks he is missing out. What can I do?
2007-05-14
05:44:45
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