my d started high school last sept.expected changes in attitude/behaviour etc, have tried letting her grow up with balance, but shes had personality change. after discovering attidude at school/late h/work plus new insolence!, i gave her big talking to, confiscated bloody mobile(present off gran)and checked out sites she uses on net.pc in kitchen so thought keeping eye on her..ha!cleverer than thought with pc! but bebo site... she has cartoon2'express' who she is..but its a chick in undies&handcuffs saying'i'll be your sex slave'. also no privacy&unknown boys(?)sending messages etc.next day grounded her&banned net excpet4h/work.gave talk on paedo's etc.is she just exploring sexuality or am i right to be worried by its precocious-ness?all happened since met new best friend-her parents have also grounded her etc.gotta be14to get on bebo, so all of Yr7have lied about ages!mine said she's16.hmmm.why cany bebo regulate this??am i right to be angry&upset?also puzzled&guilty.decent advice???
2007-01-20
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hedgewitch
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Adolescent