Mostly i'm posting this looking for words of encouragement. Please don't post mean things, I'm trying to get help, not end up more depressed. I know they say second pregnancies are different, and sometimes you just don't love the child until you've had a while to bond after it's born. I'm now 33 weeks, and i've been struggling with the fact that i don't love this baby yet. Now things are not going well with my husband, we had decided to separate for a while with him coming back next week, but now it looks like he may not even decide to come back. He won't give me straight answers about it, but i just get the feeling.... Obviously that has made me very depressed. My doctor put me back on Prozac, I've been referred to the hospital for counselling, and i plan on getting over these feelings whether alone or with my husband. The point is, the feeling that's the strongest, other than feeling abandoned, is anger at the baby. Like if i hadn't gotten pregnant, this wouldn't have happened...
2007-01-20
17:24:26
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Cyndi Storm
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