she definetly thinks im attractive because shes really flirty with me.i also think shes really attractive too. ive known her for quite a while and she and her boyfriend have been together for about 2 years now. she reffered her boyfriend to me as her "fiancee" but just a couple of days ago i saw her upset i asked her what was wrong and she told me her boyfriend cheated on her again. what should i do? should i try to talk 2 her? should i tell her how i feel?
any answers will be appreciated.
2007-01-20 17:24:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be her knight in shining armor...right now she is looking for a shoulder to cry on...and if you come to her 'rescue' she will be so thankful...listen....dont get involved unless she asks u to
2007-01-20 17:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by Colie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well she does need to leave that sorry bum ! But she has to make that desicion herself ! You should be there for her if she needs to talk! Don't push yourself on her she is hurting right now and needs a friend ! She doesn't need to jump into another relationship before she can settle this one and knows how she feels ! She has to work it out for herself and end it in her time ! She could end up with you because your there when she's feeling hurt,sad and lonely and then later on go back to him !! you best wait and see if she dumps him and gets over him first !!Or you could get hurt in the long run if your serious about her ! Just be a friend and listen , she'll apperciate that more in the long run !!
2007-01-21 01:34:18 · answer #2 · answered by monkeymomma46 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about her, you should tell her how you feel. Don't say "you're boyfriend cheated on you, now get with me", It will sound like your using her. Instead take a calmer approach, tell her that she's all you've been thinking about and you hate to see her upset and you wish there is something you can do to make her feel better. Try and get into a conversation with her about why she's staying with her boyfriend after he did these horrible things to her. Slowly get into telling her that "I would never hurt you like that" try acting like a friend before acting like a crush. Try to tell her that cheaters never change (if you have an expierence to tell her about someone cheating on you, tell her it), tell her you don't want her to get her heart broken worse than it already is. Girls love guys who can be emotional and show that they care about them more than anything. If you show her you really care she'll confide in you and sooner or later she'll be falling into your arms. Don't be pushy, and don't be too over confident, be suttle so you don't scare the girl away. It sounds like she really needs someone to talk to if her boyfriend cheated on her on more than one occasion. Eventually tell her that she deserves so much better than what her boyfriend is, which you know is the truth.
2007-01-21 01:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by beth3988 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her about getting the confidence to get rid of her boyfriend.Let her know that she will be ok and will find someone else that's even better.Don't push her with the fact that you like her,just let her know you'll be there for her.If she feels that same way as you,it will happen,let her get over her boyfriend first.
2007-01-21 01:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by J♥R♥R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you feel you can and will treat her better then i say talk to her...let her know that hes a dog and that she deserves way better and that youre there for her.I know the pain of being cheated on and shes hurting really bad right now.
2007-01-21 01:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bro chill, many girls nowadays r flirty with guys. i got a ton of friends that are girls and like to flirt with me and other guys, i dont think you should start gettin nosy about her relationship and stuff, let it fall apart by itself, dont try to do it. let her girlfriends do that for her or somethin like that. it also depends on what she says to you because like i said, lotsa girls flirt and a lot of the ones i know r in a relationship and they still do it with me and other guys. if i dont make sense im sorry, real sleepy, but i think i make sense
2007-01-21 01:30:39 · answer #6 · answered by fred 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her about what her bf has done and tell her how u feel. don't be too shy or she will move on.
2007-01-21 01:33:45 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out
2007-01-21 01:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋