I was a virgin up until the age of 23. Not due to religous or moral reason, mainly because my teenage years were so messed up I fell for this man but he turned me down when I was 21. What I found out later was he didnt want to date a virgin because my lack of experience turned him off i.e. I might be bad in bed, people were laughing at me etc. It wasn't like I was into "no sex before marriage" either, I just wanted to wait a month or two until I felt comfortable and I would hardly say I was a prudish person.I then lost my virginity at the age of 23 in a now notorious drunken one night stand which involved things outrageous enough to make most people blush (publicly). I was going through rough patch, drinking tequila and turns out, hypomanic. So I am now stuck with this shes a virgin/she's a whore reputation. My local student community can't work out which and judges me continually. I personally don't think its anybodies business, but is sexual expereince really such a big deal to men?
2007-01-19
21:48:18
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