OK,I have a long story about a fledgling friendship that I shot down in 1 swift stroke. I need to know if I did the right thing or not.
I have a fellow worker, he is gay and has no interest in me like that, nor do I being married. Anyway, I invited him to a speech club meeting of mine, he came. We chatted and had a good time. He invited me and hubby over to his house with his lover and kids. My hubby has a problem with this lifestyle, so he declined. Now, there is another variable, hubby's mom just passed away before christmas, lots of anguish there and grief from him. I said I would be there, which I have been, but have lots on my own plate as well.
Back to the new friend. I tried emailing and calling him, he'd answer, but said he'd call and never did. As a last ditch effort, mind you, over a month, I wrote him a note of somewhat "expectations". He wrote back the next day and said I was too aggressive and pushy and he was reconsidering our "acquaintanceship".
2007-01-10
21:17:15
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